He asked me what I've done what was truely motivated by love and had a benefit for him.
2007-04-02 06:11:24 · 13 answers · asked by Schmetterling 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like he is trying to feel you out and see how far you will go with him, and for him.
I would tread lightly if I were you. He sounds like I self-centered egotistical jerk.
Be careful hun.
2007-04-02 06:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by rondiebabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple perhaps it just needs tobe rephrased.
What did you do for him to show him you loved him that has no benefit to you whatsoever. For instance if my wife washed my truck, or went into garage and gathered up all my tools and put them away. Something like that. Now he can be asking you for two reasons. 1) He doesn't think you have ever done any selfless acts of love 2) He wants to pose the question to see if you go out and perform such and act or if you just slough it off. What will you do for me out of love? Intriguing question. So what is your answer?
2007-04-02 13:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jon Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humm, sounds like he wants to know... what's in it for him...
As for the "what you 've done", It is like saying he's put something into the relationship and feels you've put little in..
and , the "what was truly motivated by love".. sounds like he feels other things motivates you.. he wants to know what does motivate you in love.. like he is doing all of the MOVES and, from you.. no energy..
I think these are more about his motives than yours to be asking you these questions.
I would end a relationship like this..
Too needy...and critical..
2007-04-02 13:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by miladyfaire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure, sounds like a trap. Is he asking for more sex, a hot meal, his laundry done, it could be anything. Your best to ask him to clarify what he means and what you can do to show him how much he means to you. Maybe he's been talking to someone else about your relationship and is now questioning it.
2007-04-02 13:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a d*ck-head and doesn't deserve you. Ask him why he doesn't get a hobby so that he doesn't feel compelled to spend his free time being sadistic.
As for you, grow a spine. What does he do to make you feel loved and respected? Probably not all that much.
2007-04-02 13:20:58 · answer #5 · answered by wsibwigu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh he's having a capitalistic snit. Give him a framed picture of yourself. Try to not look like a submarine commander. and one other thing. Answer the question.
2007-04-02 13:18:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what hes asking is-- what are you bring to the plate. trust me when I tell you this- he's out for himself and no one else. the concern is all about him and not you- better think twice before any commitment on your part. I've been there and done that and kicked my butt ever since( I thought I knew it all).
2007-04-02 14:05:11 · answer #7 · answered by sylviavnpttn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to get into your head and see how sincere you really are about him. I don't try to use this method much as men and women really do think differently, but to each his own.
Becareful with your answer, there might be a lot riding on it.
2007-04-02 13:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, your lack of self confidence, is his ticket to fully controling you..........Never be afraid to ask for help for it be you who hurts when no one is around
2007-04-02 13:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by Andrew S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-04-02 13:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by riakay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋