Where did all the real men go??

Question

It's so hard to find a good man now a days...Fellas when you have a good woman why do you go out looking for someone else?? You say you want a freak in the sheets and a lady in the streets, but how true is this? When a woman show you she can provide all your needs why look else where???

Answer 1

If you recall your sunday school lessons when you were a child, it was the first adam's spirit that fell in the dust of space and time because of his disobedience to his Godly nature and character as a divine king/priest. Wilful transgression is looked upon by the judicial process as burglary correct?? So how much more do this affect the soul of man when he willfully disobeyed the Most High God. Man lost unity within himself. If adams desires caused him to love the created thing more than he loved the creator, then his dis-(ease) brought about an addiction that caused a chemical imbalance within. He has become addicted to the exact same thing that caused him to lose his equilibrium in the first place.Without a spiritual foundation, this type of man will unfortunately continue to behave in such a way that except for the grace of God, he will perish by the wayside because of his infidelity. Unfortunately, this is not the man of discipline , honor, and integrity. He will never know God because he will never master his lower nature and overcome his fate.

Answer 2

Freak in the sheets and a lady in the streets apply to married women. It may hold true for single women, but if you are a freak in the sheets for him, he has it in his mind that you have already been a freak in the sheets for someone else. Unfortunately, if you are providing all of his needs now, what will you have left to give him once you are married? Think for one second, you give him everything, and then things don't work out, you can't keep going from guy to guy giving him everything. By the time you finally approach marriage with the right guy, you may have different views on guys and marriage by then. Often times destructive views, but hopefully constructive. Hopefully you would have learned that in essence a guy wants to be with a respectable woman who in fact can say "no". A man will always complain about what he's not getting (as far as sex goes) with a woman, but you can best believe that he will always think highly of her in the long run. I would say wait, be patient, and the right guy will eventually come along who will value you just because of you. Always remember the old sayings, why should a man buy the cow if he's getting the milk for free. Once you give in to a man sexually, 95% of the chase and mystery has ended. He has conquered you already. Time to move on to the next in his eyes. This may sound cruel and true its not the case for "some" guys. Those guys are a rare find though. My suggestion would be to stop giving a guy everything and start understanding how important your body, soul and mind is. You may (or may not) have a daughter one day and the question you have to ask yourself is "would you really want your daughter to give a guy everything that she isn't married to yet?" You will make your share of mistakes in life, but you will have to learn also from these mistakes in order to raise a family one day. If you never learn from your mistakes, your children will surely repeat them. The plus side to this is that, a man who values you and adores you will understand the importance of waiting until you are married for "certain" things and he will value that quality and make you that much more attractive and desirable in his eyesight for marriage. Trust me, you don't want to be locker room talk, but you do want to be the woman that your daughter can pattern herself after.

Answer 3

Real men are out there, but because of how the world is now days some of them just don't want to come out of hiding. So you have to look in the right place, like on the computer to find them. I can't speak for all men but I want a lady that can handle a wild ride 3plus times a day. And can still be a lady in public. If you are doing all this and your man and he is looking else where then you are not giving everything your man needs, or your man is just board of you. IM me if you want more detail on what your man might be looking for.

Answer 4

There are a few good ones left. Just as there are "bad" men there are women on the same token who act and do the same things you described. I have seen many of my friends end up with nice guys and just cheat on them or give them, the... "you are too nice" speech and ask to just be friends. I think both sexes need to appreciate the other more. I only think this way because I too married the person I love and couldn't or wouldn't want to be without. Good people are out there... just don't let the wrong ones cloud your view.

Answer 5

I'm a real guy, I don't need a "freak in the sheets, and a lady on the streets" all i need is a pretty face and a sholder to lean on, and an open ear :)

Answer 6

I dont personally.

I am currently single and when I am not, my morals are true with being faithfull and not interested in going elsewhere....now on the other hand I have been betrayed by women who think the grass is greener many times.....So not a bloke thing.

It stems from the caveman cave woman principle of survival, To sustains ones culture and become dominant They hunted. Those that didnt died out or became minority cultures.

Answer 7

Men of the world today are like little boys in a candy store, they see what they want ... they pick it out and buy it, then they see something else that might taste good, so they want to try it out too! Sometimes it just looks good in the package, but has a bitter taste once they try it! Then they want their first candy back again! Well, dear... all the good ones are either taken, as in married.. or dead......... If you want someone who is faithful.. that is really another story, and it has a happy ending most of the time... you have to look in better places!
I mean, just look at Brad Pitt, he had a great wife in Jen... then he had to lust after Angelina and now he has her, but is he really happy, or does he realize he had it so good in the first place? Who knows?

Answer 8

Well if I could find a freak in the sheets and a lady in the streets I wouldn't be going anywhere! :)

Unfortunately I can't find one. :(

Answer 9

If I ever found a woman who could provide all my needs, I'd never consider finding someone else... that's just me.

Answer 10

well as a former slutty guy with my x g/f till i repented of my sins and let Jesus in my heart-I understand your question

you want to be Jesus for a guy and fill his soul-by living against Jesus with no marriage or self control--you blame him when your both at fault -real men wait for marriage and seek the girl that is worth waiting for-not one that doesnt respect marriage

i prayed and let Jesus forgive my sins, come into my heart and be my best friend, amen Revelation 3:19&20