We decided that Sunday would be a day of enjoyment for the both of us and then be on the ball the rest of the week. The only problem was, I could not get him away from the tv. Does this say something about our relationship? We did have some bedroom fun though. I really wanted to go out.
2007-04-02 01:52:43 · 7 answers · asked by just me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe a day of enjoyment for him is relaxing. i know when all my kids are out for the day my fave thing to do is take time for myself. no worries or responsibilities just lounging. you have a combined family and no doubt work all week and you stated you'd be "on the ball" the rest of the week. i think he's just tired. give him a day off. it's no big deal.
2007-04-02 02:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a little communication let down .
In form him of your wants a desires earlier in the day but also ask him what he would like to do .
You had a good time earlier with each other it sounds like and you got 9days to do things together inform each other .
make some plans work hard and then play extra hard and also just be their for each other but inform each other .
Best of wishes Have fun 9 days no kids is a vacation !!!
2007-04-02 09:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by Duck / Deer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me add...second marriage, combined families, jobs, house, tired I would say I would be tired, or even over stimulated and would enjoy a day starring into space as well...ps I am a woman........it might not say anything about your relationship but might speak volumes on all the two of you are handeling
2007-04-02 09:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TV has always been a problem for people. It is a mindless time waster in my opinion. It sounds like he is putting the tv before you. That is wrong.
2007-04-02 09:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by nutnut1957 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its time for amazing grace-letting as I did Jesus into your heart to forgive sin and give you a new beginning being born again
till then what your relationship says is that--well you already said--how do you desire your kids to act one day? what goes around comes around -Respect and marriage go together tv and fornication do too-the choice is up to you-heaven on earth and then to come--or you know the other side of the coin
2007-04-02 08:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make it clear what you want, and expect. And dont accept no for an answer........either in word OR action......Or you may consider achieving your goal for yourself. That should make him sit up and take notice.
2007-04-02 09:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out on a date give him time and tell him where you are going, do not give him options
2007-04-02 09:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋