Why is it so hard for women to just live in the moment?

Question

A female friend once told me that women are controlled by their hormones and emotions. Would you say this it true ladies?

Answer 1

they want to but they have a reputation to protest if they dont want to be labled a slu*

Answer 2

I think that woman are ruled more by their heads, combined with what their heart is telling them to do, rather than their hormones. Men can act impulsively and not think about consequences, where woman are always thinking ahead. A man and a woman can go on a date, midway through, he's thinking of getting her in bed and she's planning the rest of her life. She's thinking about, well possibly love, and he's thinking of getting laid. Woman have this subconscience that allows them to instinctively be protective of themselves. Their minds won't allow then to act like the everyday male. In most cases, the woman has been hurt before and she, again subconsciencely, sees the man as the enemy. She has to stand her ground for as long as possible. Put it this way: If the woman were able to just live in the moment and act on impulsive, they wouldnt get any respect whatsoever. Men wouldnt have to try. The way us woman have it now, we want it just as bad as the men do, but we just dont let them know that. It's the way we act, the way we second guess things and protect ourselves that makes the men think we need to be convinced. Our hormones are just as strong as men's are, we just overpower them with our brain and it happens to work out in our favor.