OK, a girl wants a nice guy. He can't be too nice. He has to take charge. He can't be controlling. He has to listen. He has to ignore. He has to be there. He can't always be there. I'm trying to figure out how to be a well-rounded guy that will attract the right girl by not being too nice, yet someone who cares and not a jerk, someone she would know would be able to protect her, a listener yet not a listener. I don't even know what is is exactly I'm trying to do. I know not to be desperate, clingy, to be confident, and such. I want to be someone who can cause the girl to chase me for once.
I'm 17. I can't seem to find a good girl at my high school. Either that, or I don't know how to have a conflicting/complicated enough personality to attract her.
2007-04-02 01:13:06 · 6 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My question name is some kind of glitch or something, it's supposed to be "I'm struggling really hard trying to figure what what a girl would want from me (to make her my girl)?"
2007-04-02 01:19:25 · update #1
well, women are complicated creatures!! I KNOW this because the truth is we don't really know what we want...Actually most girls/ women are attracted to and date the jerks then complain about them.When we meet a nice guy,we say he's too nice and treat him like a g/f..don't worry about it,it's not you the problem...&you will have plenty of time to meet diff type women and figure out which one is for you.In the meantime,have fun and be yourself the.nice guys don't always finish last.hope this helped a lil
2007-04-02 01:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 13:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things.
You see how imposable it is to try to cater to a woman's wants. So don't. Just be yourself and let the chips fall where they may. After you date alot of girls you will have learned a few things that work for you.
Next, girls don't date guys they are attracted to. They date guys who ask them out. That's why you see so many girls and women attached to total zeros.
2007-04-02 01:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard especially at your age to find people that are relationship mature, hell at 29 half of the people that I know still are not. So just be natural and be yourself.
2007-04-02 01:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, maybe your just trying to hard and setting too many standards on yourself. Just chill and be yourself and if your just nice, maybe too nice well so be it. You can only be who you are and you shouldn't try and change who you are for anyone, that's where your going wrong. Just be you.
Cheers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-02 01:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋