when a girl asks if u like her or not what's the best answer and what does she mean?

Question

i am in love with my female flatmate and i can not tell her anything cause if she's not interested,it will ruin our relationship and we have common friends as well...
Until now i was able to hide my emotions.Recently i've got that vibe(she "touches" me with an "innocent" way) that she's testing me if i really want her.Maybe she wants me as well....
The thing is what should i do in case she asks me something about our relationship straightforward?
Cause i want to be sure that she has emotions for me as well in order to move furthermore

Answer 1

She meanz Do U want to go out Wit Her. If she asks you, walks of, then comes back 2 ask you out in the future... Then she is messin' wit U. U will feel a conection when U know it is ment 2 Be!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

DO NOT, under any circumstances, tell her you like her. Instead, say, "Ugh, how could I ever be attracted to a girl like you" with a big smile on your face. Since she asked you, it's obvious she's fishing for information and likes you back!

You've got all the information you need to proceed. Now, keep up that light-hearted attitude and ask her out "to see if you have chemistry". It's really not necessary to take it too seriously and any heavy stuff will just detract from the excitement.

Don't worry about sending her mixed messages; if she's a little confused that's a good thing. She'll just be more curious about what you think of her and chase you back : )

Answer 3

without trying to hard if it comes to call her asking you about your relationship wait and see what the questions are and be honest in what you say, don't lie to her. or you could tell her how you feel maybe that a NO for you but you might be surprise by her answer. but what she has been doing sounds quite innocent, but if she is testing which could be that as well, try and do the similar things that she has been doing and she her reaction you'll soon see if she is interested. If you feel your scared of ruining your relationship of friendship, if your feeling ever come out if she is a good friend, she will be understanding. good luck mate!!!!

Answer 4

one of you has got to be strong enough to find out! You do like her so if you do expose how you feel you have got to be the one mature and strong enough to deal with rejection if thats whats going to happen. I think she does like you and some of the best relationships start in house shares during college or the early years of working. Is the flat yours? Hers? Rented? If worst comes to worst who will have to leave? I think if you 2 are real friends you will be able to deal with this and move on in a healthy way if it does'nt work. BUT I think it just might, have a cosy night together,be as relaxed as you both can be, talk and let her talk a lot!! Then when you both decide to settle back to watch t.v. make the move, put your arm around her shoulder and see what happens, be prepared for her to either enjoy it or jump up and say whats that for? I have a feeling she will turn to you and look into your eyes and then you 2 will have a talk and admit your feelings to each other. Sounds romantic but from what you have said I think she is just waiting for you to say "I have feelings for you". The serious bit should go like this " I dont want to make you feel uncomfortable, I mean, this is your home, I just cant pretend any longer that I'm very fond of you and very attracted to you as a person." I reckon that should make her melt and return the Oh My God, I feel something too...." just be sensitive about the whole thing, make sure she is'nt seeing someone else or that she does'nt fancy someone else. Dont base your attempt to see how she feels on your fear of her not returning the feeling, there is nothing more enticing to a woman than a man who is truthful and admits his feelings. But if she does'nt return them you still have to appear like a man. Maybe offer a Hugh Grant style "I'm teribly fond of you. do you know that? We get on very well and I feel I can be myself around you" see what she says. OOOH I'd love to hear how it goes!!! Good Luck!

Answer 5

Be honest. Tell her you like her more than a friend but just not to scare her off or anything let her know that if she doesn't feel that way towards you that you understand, no hard feelings you will always be her confidante. Key thing this only applies if she asks. If she doesn't ask, one day when she touches you innocently again, tell her jokingly, she has to stop touching you because she is causing a fatal attraction........but say it in a way to make her blush.

Answer 6

Play it cool and tease her. Come off hot and heavy and you're lost. Make it light hearted and keep in the frame of mind as if you're talking to one of you're younger sister's friends. Keep your head and remember that is not the only girl in the world - don't get wrapped round the axle about this or you'll be in a world of hurt. I get the feeling that your 'vibe' is right, they normally are but let her do the chasing. In the words of the song 'Don't mug yourself'

And the very last thing you should do is be honest! That's not to mean don't be true to yourself but super disclosure like telling her you 'love her' would be very, very bad. This is not Hollywood - you are not Tom Hanks and she is not Meg Ryan.

Answer 7

the best thing is to be honest with her. it also depends what she asks you. if she asks you how you feel and you want to protect yourself and the relationship you can tell her how you feel but say that you respect her feelings if she does not feel the same and that you are happy for the relationship to remain just friends as you care enough about her as a friend too and respect her feelings and are happy just being friends if that is all she wants.

Answer 8

When she does ask you the best answer is the truth,tell her how you really feel. It means she has feelings for you and wants to know how you feel about her too!

Answer 9

tell her yes