for example: yesterday we just came back from a lovely holiday. today i haven't heard from him all day. i know i can call him for a chat anytime but i do ask myself why he doesn't do it naturally. a lot of couples call each other three times a day. once i tried to ask him about it and he said that he thinks about me but he just doesn't send random text messages etc... and that i could have called him , and he said that i shouldn't play stupid games. he would call me next day...
well i'm not playing games but i sometimes wonder why??
i have to mention that he is not very talkative about his feelings and stuff like that.
do your boyfriends behave like that? or guys do you behave like that and why?
2007-04-02 12:42:07 · 14 answers · asked by petr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like the other poster said, Its possible that he is waiting for you to call him. He is watching how regularly you call him too. Men like to receive calls too.
If he USUALLY does the calling, i would definitely call him.
However, if you usually call, or the calls are about equal, I have to say its could possibly indiicate a slight lack of enthusiasm about the r'ship. When I was dating I was very wary of men who withheld calls, broke off dates, that sort of thing. ANalyse the dynamics of your r'ship - if you are generally the one doing all the chasing, the phoning, the date-planning etc then maybe its time to review your r'ship.
2007-04-02 12:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by Chimera's Song 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-25 16:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'sigh'. Yes it's perfectly normal! He just spent a whole holiday with you, now he feels like calling the lads, talking to the folks, catching up in general with everyone he hasn't seen for a while. Give him a break! He loves you but he has other parts to his life, stop being paranoid!
2007-04-02 12:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by T M 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
well a whole day is kind of a long time. but i still dont think you should stress over it. There are a lot of couples who dont get together every day or talk on the phone a lot. Me and my boyfriend dont, we're both just busy people, we talk when we can. Just suck it up and call him.
2007-04-02 12:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by socal_rachel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
relax - guys just have a different way of dealing with emotions than girls do. There really isn't anything to worry about.
guys tend not to talk about emotions - subconsciously, we seem to see it as a sign of weakness.
daft, i know.
2007-04-02 12:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by freakokalam 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I sense that you feel he doesnt love you as much as you do him and he may be seeing someone else. Well I think your too needy, you need to do your own thing and let him have some time to him self, with relationships the initial flare starts to wear off.
2007-04-02 12:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Read "Men are from Mars, Women are From Venus". It deals with this issue very well.
Many guys are like that.
2007-04-02 12:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
My ex and I sometimes didn't talk everyday and I hated it
now my bf calls me like 6 times a day and I hate it!
im just picky!
2007-04-02 13:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by Lori Beth 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you have just been away together he probably just wanted to have the day to himself.......it is perfectly normal for a guy to do this.....
2007-04-02 20:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah its perfectly normal. Girls arent the only thing guys like. They like football, music, Sports etc. He still likes you.
2007-04-02 12:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋