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I don't feel that we connect emotionally. He's 3 years younger than me, he's 24 and I'll be 27 this year and he's immature and is doing his best to please me but it's so hard! We're both Christians and want what is best for each other in our lives. I'm not so sure my future is with him but I am sure that I love him. We've been together over 2 years now and we haven't even met each other's parents-he's always got some excuse (shows the immaturity) and I've been wanting to meet his. We live together in Florida his parents in Maryland and my family in Iowa. *sigh* HELP ME! :o(

2007-04-02 15:15:22 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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So what is it that you want? To meet his parents or get married?
It should not be a problem to meet the family. They need to come visit sunny Florida sometime!

It sounds like what you really want is a deeper level of committment. Don't force him to choose, but just talk to him about where he sees the two of you in 5 years. Then you have to decide if that is compatible with what you want.

2007-04-02 15:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by tbonz 4 · 0 0

You've picked someone that feeds your co-dependent behavior...one that isn't going to challenge your emotional stability to the point that your going to have a healthy relationship with another...there is no excuse for not making your life style known....sure your not living a way a Christian up bringing would agree with but you have to be honest about what your doing in order to recognize why your being the way you are. The bf is enabling you...not a help at this point in your life, things need to become more stable, one of you needs to make up for the others inadequacies..in order to have balance in your lives and it sounds like both of you have to much against you as a couple with issues.

2007-04-02 22:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0 0

You need to decide what direction you want your life to go in. If you have things in common with your boyfriend, you can work at a life together, but if not it might be time to call it quits.

2007-04-02 22:20:33 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0 0

well if you are a christian than you know up front what you need to do is ask if he is the right one for you? let him know how you feel. if the two of you are going for a long term relationship then you first need to get it in order. if your not going nowhere or getting nowhere then what is the point?

2007-04-02 22:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by Snickerlicious 3 · 0 0

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