2007-04-02 14:55:19 · 47 answers · asked by LaLaLaa♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely not! It's not love if you do something intentionally that you know would hurt them. If a person TRULY loves someone, they ALWAYS put that person's feelings ahead of their own wants, needs and desires. They are incapable of doing something that awful to that person.
2007-04-02 15:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems paradoxical, doesn't it? If you love someone, you wouldn't cheat, and if you do cheat, you've basically made a statement about how you feel about your partner. Personally, though, I don't think it's that black and white. Relationships are complicated things between complicated beings. A lot of things happen, emotions and feelings can get tangled up and make a situation stickier... there can be a lot of variables involved.
I would say that a person who does truly love their partner can cheat on them, only because human beings have a capacity for love as well as error.
2007-04-02 15:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by Yookemia 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
even if someone truly loves another person it doesn't mean that there isn't the chance they could cheat. i mean there are thousand of reason for people to make mistakes, alcohol, drugs, being messed up and taken advantage of.
if someone truly loves there partner they should be able to forgive them. Although saying that it would probably reap havoc on there relationship if something like this happened.
2007-04-02 15:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sorta Undead 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
*Sigh* I wish the answer was No but its simply not that easy. Sometimes when you date someone, your personal values don't match completely. This doesn't mean you dont truly love them or that they truly dont love you. Now to emotionally cheat on someone which is a form of romantic love, then yes that person is not truly in love with their partner. Now physical love or sex is something different. It could mean they arent truly in love or it could mean they are weak. Now what i meant about your personal values not matching, sex and how you go about having sex is a personal value. If sex means nothing to you then you can be truly in love with someone and sleep with anybody. so what does sex mean to you and what does it mean to your partner?
2007-04-02 15:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by Dani M. From Cali 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT DEPENDS ON THE PERSON.IF THE PERSON HAS GOOD MORL VALUES THEN NO,MOST OF ALL THERES SOMETHING CALLED KARMA,EVERYTHINGWE DO ALWAYS COMES BACK AROUD TO YOU.I MET A MAN OVER 41/2 YEARS AGO.HE DID NOT HAVE MONEY, BUT HE HAD ALL THE TRAITS OF EVERY ROMANTIC CHARACTER ON THE BIG SCREEN,BUT THE POOR MAN WAS DOOMED FROM THE START,IT WAS ALLLLL MY FAULT.I WAS STILL WORKING THROUGH A DIVORCE FROM 1 YEAR PROIR. HE WAS THE ONE I LET GET VEAWAY, BUT IT DOESN'T END THERE. I SABATOGED THE RELATIONSHIP,I WAS VERY CONFUSED &I LET ONE OF HIF LOW LIFE [FRIENDS] CHARM ME,SO I BROKE UP W/HIM & SLEPT WITH THIS JERK. MY BOYFRIEND &I WOULD HAVE DEFINETELY GOT BACK TOGETHER,BUT HE HAD SOME PRIDE &I WOULDN'T TAKE THE 1ST STEP.SO WITHIN ABOUT 6 WEEKS OR SO HE THOUGHT I DIDN'T WANT HIM ANYMORE.WHAT ELSE COULD HE THINK . HE WAS NOT MAD AT ME FOR LONG,BUT I BROKE HIS HEART,HENCE BREAKING MY OWN. HE COMITTED SUICIDE BY BLOWING HI BRAINS OUT HE WROTE A SUICIDE LETTER FOR ME FORGIVING ME,TELLING ME THAT HE WOULD ALWAYS LOVE ME& THAT HE WOULD HAVE MARRIED ME.THIS HAPPENED NOV.27,2002 THAT HAPPENED OVER 52 MONTHS AGO,&NOW HE WILL NEVER KNOW HOW I AM SPENDI NG EVERYDAY OF MY LIFE WISHING THAT I COULD HAVE JUST ONE MORE CHANCE,BUT I DON'T DESERVE
2007-04-02 15:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A person who claims to be in love and committed to someone and then cheats on them is more in love with themselves than anyone else.
They may really care, but in the end it will always be about them.
2007-04-02 14:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by Bingo's Mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! I think when a person cheats then that is telling the one they supposedly love that they aren't enough and they aren't in love that much, if you truly love someone you don't cheat on them in my opinion.
2007-04-02 14:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by Urchin 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since you say "truly" I would say no... As a guy if some HOT women came on to me and I was already taken but all she wanted was no string sex then it would be hard to say no if I knew no one would ever find out. Since you say the word "truly" a guy should think about what if this happened to him how would he feel, or how much would this crush my girls heart if I do this... That SHOULD make him say no...
2007-04-02 15:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by sooners83 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, if you are truly in love with someone else you would not even consider doing something like that.
2007-04-02 14:58:22 · answer #9 · answered by lysistrata411 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. True love is a total commitment to your partner. Total commitment precludes cheating.
2007-04-02 14:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by peachstatehoosier 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋