I'm in a current LDR........but my boyfriend never calls anymore, emails, ect. just ignores me. I don't want to end the relationship but i know i have to because of all the ignoring i suspect he's cheating......how do i get over him? i love him alot and am so torn right now (and please no one suggest that i date other ppl because i just don't want to right now)
2007-04-02 15:22:26 · 7 answers · asked by Lula 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow im going through the same thing right now.. my boyfriend of 4 years and a son later just dumped me friday and its been killing me... sweety the only way you can get over him is through time, but you know u have to call it off...mine was doing the same thing but i love him so much he knew i wouldnt dump him so he dumped me.. he wasnt cheating but iggnoring... dating someone else is the option for those with no hearts... i cant bring myself to do it and i cant tell someone else thats what they need to do cause you know what, if you really love him its not gonna help anyway... you just have to take it one day at a time.. try going out with friends and doing whatever to stay busy to take your mind off of it.. the hardest part is bedtime when you have nothing to do but think about it... but eventually it will get easyer....or at least i hope so...i hope i could help
2007-04-02 15:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by keyana j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want someone to comfort you, then call your girlfriends.
But the truth of the matter is that your relationship is already over. You don't need to struggle with ending it because your boyfriend already has!! It it clear as a bell that he doesn't call or write anymore because he has moved on.
I suggest you do the same.
2007-04-02 22:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by fenway2k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like thats his way of ending it with you...I'd confirm that and move on...not knowing is to hard on anyone.
2007-04-02 22:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to end the relationship...he has already has.
2007-04-02 22:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start looking for another man
2007-04-02 22:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by gat91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something else you love and it will help a bit
2007-04-02 22:26:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give ur heart time to mend...................go out with ur friends and buy clothes........................... clothes for ur new life and to new people whom u may meet along the way
2007-04-02 22:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by April Agnostic™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋