What does a 60 year old man do when dumped by his wife?

Question

My wife is in her 40s and after 13 years decided I was too old for her. She discovered the bars and being very good looking and resembling a 30 year old, she received more attention than was healthy. She wants to find people her own age and have fun. Is that it for me? Do men my age normally find someone else to share their life with? I like movies, music, acting in local theater. I have my own home, a successful business, and am pretty much free to come and go. Do women find any of that attractive or should I resign myself to being alone? Incidentally, I just found out tonight that the wife is already seeing someone and I feel as if I'm not going to make it through tomorrow. Help

Answer 1

I would divorce the Cheating HOE, and find another woman that will appreciate what you have to offer!
Hell I know at least 7 right now that ware in your age rage and would love to be wowed for once in there lives!
Don't give up on yourself when a skank gives up on you!

Answer 2

Hi, First I hope you made it through the next day and the next. No Woman or Man is worth your life. Second. You are only 60 years old., You are just beginning. Ask my Grandma she is 89 and just bought a new house last year. She has burried 2 husbands and she goes out every night to play her card games. For her 89th birthday she asked for a pool cue. Thats right she is a pool shark,. So if she can live her life at 89 you can live yours at 60.
The next thing is this. Your wife is 30 years younger than you. What did you really have in common except your money. You made it and she liked it. Now I am not saying that it couldn't have worked out but your wife chose to throw away what seems to be a perfectly wonderful gentleman for the ones that hang out at the bar scene. So what you need to do now is concentrate on protecting yourself and your assests. First open a new checking account in your name only, then transfer the money from the joint account into the new account this way she has no access. let her new friend pay her way. You also need to take her name off of any of your credit cards. Was the house bought before or after you were married? Was the business started before or after. The next most important thing to do is get a lawyer. The first one to the lawyer is usually the winner in divorce cases. Don't let her know that you are doing any of this until you get all of your affairs in order. Remove any fiancial paperwork from the home and put it at the new bank in a safety deposit box. and Sir, please don't sleep with her. There are a lot of things that you could catch from her if she is not having protected sex, Alcohol and sex do not make good bed partners. Please take care of yourself and know that not all woman are like this. Debbie D and G Gifts Etc www.dandggiftsetc.com

Answer 3

Well sorry to hear about this. Looks like her mind is made up, I take it that you will get a divorce ? Just take one day at a time, do not make any dumb business moves or bad decisions. After you divorce, spend time with your friends, go to ball game, fishing, etc,,after some time look for a good stable woman, closer to your age. Plenty of attractive 50-60 yr old women around. There might be a time that your wife might want you back, stand firm & say no, because this will happen again,,

Answer 4

I can understand that you'd be hurt, but unfortunately, this often happens in a relationship with a great age difference.
You have no reason to resign yourself to being alone the rest of your life. You have many good qualities that any woman would like, I know I do. If things don't work out with the wife, move on, you deserve a second chance at happiness.

Answer 5

Sounds like your just now beginning to have a life. You've got it all now except for a cheating wife. Get out and find someone else. Your never too old to love and care for someone. There are a lot of 60 year-old females out there that would enjoy having you as a friend, husband, confidante or whatever. Sounds like you were raising another child instead of a wife. Good luck to you and enjoy what God has given us and that is life.

Answer 6

Well, let see, When you were 20, your wife was born!!!!
)))Light (((( These are the things you have had to already asked yourself 13 years ago! Some women can fall in love with a man old enough to be her father but, they have to expect this as part of the age gap. Not always but, in most cases.
Find someone your age who can grow old with you. You stand a better chance of the relationship lasting.

Answer 7

Your wife probably just going thru menapause like my wife of 27 years did. She's gone now. Till it ends in 7-10 years she will act and think like someone else not the woman you married. My wife wouldn't see a doc or even remotly think that she was acting anything else but looking to be happy. We had and still going on for last 2 1/2 years a horrabl divorce that I still wonder how it got this bad . Get her to divorce quick and sign up in the personals and have fun yourself!!!

Answer 8

This question caught my attention because my uncle who is 64 this yr was in the exact same predicament you're in a yr before. His wife left him for a younger man and now a yr later, he has 2 girlfriends and he's trying to choose between the two...lol! My point is, it's not too late. You're only 60. If your wife wants to leave the marriage, then let her, as hard as that may be. There's not much you can do. Then you have to start looking out for yourself and your own happiness. Life doesn't have to end at 60 you know.

Answer 9

I am sorry for your loss. But you may be better off without her if she needs to explore all these bars now. She hasn't discovered that most of the people in those bars are just looking to find a kind person like you to love them.

As for you...what do you do? Depends on what you want to do. You can explore your interests alone or with someone new. Women like a man that knows himself and treats a woman well. You don't have to be alone. But give yourself time to grieve first.

Don't worry about finding someone who wants to spend time with you. All you have to do is get out and be social. You will find a new person that really appreciates you.

Answer 10

Man, its going to get so much better for you.

The older you get, the more things swing in men's favour.

First off, there are just less men in the market due to the fact that men die more. Second, almost all women disqualify men who are not financial successful. So the pool of 'eligible' men is much smaller as you get older then the women pursueing them.

A financially stable guy with his own home, hobbies, etc? You'll have no problem finding new people if that's what you want.

Answer 11

Someone is bound to tell you sooner or later that older men are extremely attractive to older women! I know you are going through a rough time but if it is assurance you need that you can still have a romantic and social life - there it is. Frankly, as the population ages, women tend to live longer than men. There are fewer men to go around so they are prized. Women aren't likely to be attractive to younger guys so they have to look in their own age group and so you will have women buzzing around you like bees at a hive. I'm not at all worried about your romantic future!