how'd u react!??

Question

if u paid a visit at ur bf's office and u saw on his desk a souvenir that his ex-gf gave him a long time ago, wat wil ur reaction be??will u be mad?

Answer 1

It depends upon the souvenir. Does the souvenir reflect your boyfriend's interests or personality? If so, then he's keeping it because he likes it, and 'who cares where it came from'.

If not, then you'll want to talk with your boyfriend about it calmly.

The only time I'd suggest that you get upset is if you ask him what the souvenir means to him and he tries to avoid the question.

Answer 2

Absolutely not, what is there to be mad about so he has something on his desk, unless it was a photo of her then I would dump him straight up.

This ex is obviously a worry to you otherwise you wouldn't have bothered about the souvenior, maybe you don't trust him and need to work through that. You will only push him away if you get angry about something tiny like that though.

Answer 3

? not sure how I would feel and react-but I know what I would do from above---if he has not intentions of marrying you-you will be on his desk one day too along with her

pray and get help-it helped me see the big picture when others didnt=as I preached Isaiah 52:13-53:12 -I said well you must be seeing something I havent even said a name -and others here are saying I am teaching about Jesus and be quiet.

-i prayed and let Jesus comfort me-"Jesus help me, thank you that you love me no matter what, come into my heart, I am sorry for my sins against you, not believing and even telling one lie, help me do better and be my friend, amen."

Jesus said "I love you and knock to come into your heart door, forgive for sins and be your friend, if you ask me in." Revelation 3 vs 19&20

now Jesus helps me alot and He is my best friend.

have a good day and praying for you too, David

Answer 4

I would have to say gf but either way, I really think it would depend what it was!
If it was a picture of him/her I wouldn't be too happy about that.
If it were like a nik-nac such as a desk clock, something impersonal, I don't think it would bother me too much.
Besides this, by you not showing too much jealousy over something like that will show your bf that you are secure with yourself. Good Luck!

Answer 5

as a brazilian you probably will be mad (lol brazilian women are extremely jealous)
but the thing is, it actually might mean nothing. otherwise your boyfriend wouldn't let you see it. he'd be smart enough to hide it from you, not let it out there where everyone can see. my guess is, you're overreacting it 'cause it's always a pain in the *** for remind that our current boyfriend has former lovers. but it's inevitable though, guys will always have ex girlfriends to haunt our lives

Answer 6

first reaction, i would be hurt, but then i want to think as a matured woman. And i will tease him and ask why he still keep those stuff? and if he gave me a good reason.. like they are just good enough for decorations, then its ok. If he thinks other than that, then its not my business anymore. If he is hiding feelings other than that, its up to him. i am not the one who carry the conscience its him. just don't be negative. past is past. for me that is not a big deal.maybe we have different opinion. good luck

Answer 7

If they are ex's, and there's nothing more between them, then if it is just a figurine or something, it's probably alright. But, on the other hand, if they are still "good friends", then you might be mad. And if it's a pic of them together or her, then really be pissed off.

Answer 8

Tall dark and lovely ha? :-)

hmm well I have many many things from ex partners and I only keep them because I like them (the things). My Girl also still wares the watch from her ex. (it is a nice watch) I have not found a better one yet.... Who cares where they came from,... when you are in love you are IN LOVE and there is no question about material things!... Seems to me that you are not that sure about your love for him and his love for you??

Do you know what love is?

Answer 9

He liked the souvenir.
Buy him something from you
for his desk that he might like.
I wouldn't be mad at all.

Answer 10

i'd be mad at first, but then i'll go and confront him asking why he has it there. but, if he's not there, wh you could do is take it and hide it. if he asks where it is, tell him you do not know!