I love life. People tell me I have a great sense of humor and generally a good person. I'm not especially pretty, but not ugly either. I don't normally whine - tonight is the exception. So what is so very wrong with me that no guy is even remotely interested in getting to know me? I'm tired of being alone.
2007-04-02 23:05:10 · 7 answers · asked by Rabbit 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd like to take this opportunity to direct you to my most recent question.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AijWzqU8FPynuYQFJk4q1Insy6IX?qid=20070401053027AAKustV
I too am someone who hates whining, I have a blisteringly good sense of humour (so I'm told), I try to be the best person I can possibly be- and as my question states- I'm not a super model nor am I esp ugly.
Whereas I am happy being me, I do still get quite lonely sometimes. I've only recently gotten to the stage where I don't feel the need to have someone in my life.
By the same token I'd dearly love someone to love- but it is no longer my one principle driving force as it once was.
So really there is nothing inherrently wrong with you and I. Nothing that precludes us from finding love. Its just that the Gods and fate have saved us for something else. One person who we have yet to meet who will be the one for us.
In brief.
*Never look down, you might see something you're looking for when you look up.
*Always have a smile ready.
*Always conduct yourself with honour and grace, esp under fire.
*Never let them see you bleed.
*Don't let anyone tell you you're not worth being treated with dignity, respect and love.
Email me, we'll be email-pen friends. :-)
The Iceman.
2007-04-02 23:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by The Iceman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can see why you might feel this way. Just remember, you are not alone in your feelings. Actually, studies show that guys are more alone in their feelings of being unwanted than girls!
Attraction is so media-ized these days that many young adults think that if they don't wear certain clothes, look a certain way, weigh about 100 lbs, at 5'11!! (LOL) or have many guys after them, that they are not pretty or likeable. That is a lie. The truth is, there is probably someone out there that feels the same way you do, but is probably too shy to approach you. You seem very approachable with your sense of humor, no whining (definite turn-off), and good personality. If you can add some confidence in there, I think you will find yourself in a better place.
If you love life, embrace it! What hobbies are you good at? What do you do in your spare time? What kind of music do you like? Approach a guy who is listening to the kind of music you like and seems apart from the rest of the crowd. Or maybe he is reading a book you have already read and you can finish it with him. Most of all, make him laugh, show him how much you enjoy life and you will become contagious!
2007-04-02 23:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by quacker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of Course not! Sometimes it boils me up to see bad things happen to good people like ur self and no there is nothing wrong with u. Who cares how pretty or Ugly u may seem to be as long as u have a good strong character to carry inside you all the days in ur life, that's what matters and I can understand ur tired of being lonely every saturday I go out to the mall to watch a movie I wish I had someone to be with and I tired of being alone but, u know what they always say "that's life" but Im sure you'll find someone just hang in there!
2007-04-03 01:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep in mind that every guy that avoids you doesnt know what he's missin :} that should at least keep you going untill someone who deserves you comes along. I have the same problem except i am a guy. also do you like someone and how can you be sure someone doesnt like you there might be someone you know secretly liking you so be nice to everyone . . . . . . . JUST IN CASE?
2007-04-02 23:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by Sparrow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl, there's nothing wrong with you. what's wrong are in those guys out there who are really missing alot of not taking a glimpse on you. its good that you feel good about yourself. keep it up! you'll be surprised men are flooding around you. i know it'll be happenning very very soon...
2007-04-02 23:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by don't funk with my heart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
every1s lovable nd im sure u are too .u jus have 2 wait.
2007-04-02 23:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by begum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is your mail id?
2007-04-02 23:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by V_17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋