I don't do that. I respect my hubby's privacy , i have never checked his e.mails either and would be very upset if he checked out mine. I like my privacy and therefore find it unthinkable that people can even think of doing that, UNLESS, they feel they have good reason to.:)
2007-04-02 23:34:38 · 22 answers · asked by Duisend-poot 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if the person is not hiding anything no proplem
2007-04-02 23:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by PAUL D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I've never done it and I don't intend to either. At the end of the day, if you don't have trust, then you have nothing.... and I would feel if it came to a point in the relationship where I was checking up on him, then I've got nothing and may as well get out.
2007-04-03 00:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I never check my husbands phone or e-mails and as far as i know he doesn't check mine. If he did it wouldn't bother me i have nothing to hide. I trust my man and i like to think that i know him well enough to pick up on any problems we have without either of us having to look for anything elsewhere.
2007-04-03 00:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by shez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'agree with you. my other half doesnt check mine i dont check his. its a mutual respect thing. we trust each other and we've never given each other a reason not too. i do know people that do and all its done is caused grief because of jealously or getting the wrong end of the stick over a comment.
2007-04-02 23:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by womble 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't check a girlfriends email/phone or whatever because the message is not addressed to me, I wouldn't go round a friends house and open their mail
2007-04-04 09:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by nurgle69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I ask exactly why you're interested to know? My partner and I have an extremely open relationship so if one needs to use the others phone or email account, we do. One person's privacy is another person's secrets so each to their own.
It interests me that you need to know what other people do in their relationships - surely if everything in yours is exactly how you want it to be you wouldn't be comparing notes. In my view there is no email, message, or phone call I'd want to hide from my partner because I have nothing I need to hide from him. If someone needed to keep things from me in a relationship I'd find that a bit weird and think they had a problem with intimacy...
As I say though each to their own and all that!
2007-04-02 23:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I checked his phone and found out he was cheating so I have no regrets! I had my doubts. Funny that you ask this Q cause I just posted mine last night. Its a necessary evil sometimes. I will never tell him how I found out.
2007-04-02 23:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not dream of it. I would also be very annoyed if he looked at mine. As my mother used to say - there should be no need for secrets in a relationship but everyone is entitled to privacy.
2007-04-03 00:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by D B 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she did checked my phone before(twice) but infront of me. when message flies in.she would ask who is it and i wont hide anything from her and show her so that she can read what's exactly in the content. i have never checked on her things before. i lay my trust on her. trust plays a very important role in a realtionship
2007-04-02 23:53:54 · answer #9 · answered by starapproximate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to check his emails. I'm working on the "trust" word now.. Frankly I don't give a $hit anymore.
2007-04-02 23:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by marisia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, like you I respect and trust my hubby so whatever he's up to it doesn't need checking. Curiosity can kill a relationship if the other person doesn't feel trusted--even if they AREN'T up to anything they don't like being suspected. Or perhaps especially if they're innocent.
2007-04-02 23:39:10 · answer #11 · answered by anna 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋