Family & Relationships - 3 April 2007

Okay i am 27 yrs old and my hubby is 35 we have been married 6 yrs not so happily he cheated and i cheated to get back at him (but he does not know that).While in therapy with my hubby found out i was pregnant(twins) after the affair.I never questioned paternity before but my daughters features and my sons have me questioning not sure if its guilt or not.My hubby and i have been seperated 1.5 yrs not spoken in 4 months.I am terrified of what my hubby could do to me in court because i think he suspects i had an affair at some point?Am i just overreacting and going crazy?

2007-04-03 14:00:30 · 19 answers · asked by Carrie L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, my friend is having a problem. shes a smart, athletic, and good looking 19 yr old. she hasnt had a bf for quite a while and she blames it on the fact that shes really quiet. i try to explain to her that she just looks uninterested in guys so they leave her alone but she continually puts herself down and says shes never going to find the right guy. so guys, is being shy really a turn off or does it just make that person difficult to approach? and what advice could i give her to help her be more open to ppl and get a bf?

2007-04-03 13:55:07 · 10 answers · asked by Lizzy S 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when you like a girl?

2007-04-03 13:51:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for 2 years now. We have had a lot of arguments lately. I was looking at his phone and found a photo of some naked girl topless. When i asked him about the photo and why it was on his phone he swore to me that it was a quote "chain" message and that one of his guy friends sent it to him and the ONLY reason it saved to his phone was because he sent it to his other friend. I saw he did send it to his other friend.

ANY WHO he has been talking to this girl named "Lauren" a lot ever since February. He said he met her through a friend. He texts her and it's a bit "flirt" His friend whom he met her through told me that she is NOT interested in him but for ME not to tell my boyfriend that.

I also found messages from some girl who's number is NOT in his phone book. At first he told me it was a guy but i could tell from reading the messages it was a girl. He said he missed her and wanted to see her he called her "best friend"

2007-04-03 13:47:42 · 1 answers · asked by LiLSammy491 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I are getting married next May and we're thinking of going to Nashville. It's kind of a compromise as she wanted Hawaii and I wanted guests but neither of us know much about Nashville. We are looking at Cedarwood to do the ceremony and reception but if anyone has any suggestions that would be cool. We'd likely have less than 50 people. Also we're looking at photographers in the area. Any suggestions along those lines would be good too. Thanks from both of us.

2007-04-03 13:46:25 · 4 answers · asked by Jake S 5 in Weddings

type of gf, but at the same time i dont want him to know that i am feeling guilty

2007-04-03 13:45:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm currently getting a divorce. The main reason, my wife forged my name on several credit card applications with out my knowledge or concent and then ran up massive amounts of debt.
So much so, that after cashing out my retirement account (little more than $67,000) and paying what I knew about, there is still roughly $30,000 in debt out there.
According to the police and every lawyer I consulted they say what she did was legal and that I can take no action against her for doing it. But does it make it right?

2007-04-03 13:37:25 · 23 answers · asked by Tom P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when you are a little overweight and are self concious of your body. I want to do this for him but I am so embarrassed. He wants some of them to be graphic and we haven't been talking but a few months before he left and I miss him very much and I want to do this so bad for him but how do you hide the flaws. No mean answers please.

2007-04-03 13:37:01 · 5 answers · asked by latasha 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so my boyfreind and i were living together and to make a long story short, were fighting one day about something irrelevant. Anyway, i said something absolutley horrible and he slapped me across the face. I slapped back and moved out. 3 months later, now we're talking and trying to get back together. Im moving back in with him next month and we are dedicated to being together and working it out. Hes never done anything violent before but i want to ensure this never happens again. SO, ive brought it up about three times, and hes said he was sorry and he would never do it again. I beleive him but know that SOME men do it once, they will do it agian. So ive been talking about it so much to let him know its a big deal to me that this never happens again. I said it on the phone again tongiht and he hungup on me. Now im thinking enough is enough and i should move on and stop talking about it. But part of me is saying that I should be able to talk about my worries as much as I want...

2007-04-03 13:24:36 · 15 answers · asked by fabulous13 3 in Singles & Dating

hey will u help me ..put ur email ,intrests and nickname and age!! thx

2007-04-03 13:22:05 · 5 answers · asked by girlzbestfriendizshopping 2 in Singles & Dating

Assuming you've been in it for a while and the circumstances suddenly change.

2007-04-03 13:15:22 · 6 answers · asked by Steve-O 2 in Singles & Dating

just curious.

2007-04-03 13:12:33 · 21 answers · asked by italiancat73 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy have liked each other ever since we were 12, and now he is 21 and I’m 20. We both knew that we liked one another but never said. We first met 8 years ago but it was the fact that we were in two different states that kept us apart. Three years later we meet again and tell each other that we still feel the same, but mind you we are still apart as he went off to university up north and I'm down south, but he tells me he has a girlfriend (he met her at uni). He has now been with her for 3 years but has recently broken up with her saying he didn’t see them having a future, but keeps giving me the vibe that he still has feelings for me and all his friends say that he does have feelings for me. This guy that I have been in love with for 8 years has now graduated and now lives 5 minutes away from me, but I’m now transferring to another state because of uni too! What should I do? I love him so much

2007-04-03 13:12:19 · 11 answers · asked by Suga 1 in Singles & Dating

i need this ansewr immediatly because i have date and this first time for me

please

2007-04-03 13:11:26 · 1 answers · asked by attyah a 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend Allen is datin this chick. But i like him an like his gf was my best friend but is goin out with him cuz we r fightin an like a bunch of ppl have seen her cheat on him an told him but he don't believe us!! plus she kept tellin him that i started a rumor bout her an now he is mad at me but she might break up wit him supposibly because of me!!!! wat should i do???

2007-04-03 13:11:07 · 5 answers · asked by angels_hottie_lover 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

IS this bad?!

2007-04-03 13:10:35 · 83 answers · asked by cutiepie 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you create a avatar and put it as your picture?

2007-04-03 13:09:39 · 3 answers · asked by miguelsgf4ever 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex is coming round tomorrow havent seen him in ages. i want a night of passion but ive come on my period ahhh! what shall i do?

2007-04-03 13:07:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think this guy likes me but hes totally dorky, and he keeps STARING AT ME!!!! What do I do?????

2007-04-03 13:07:41 · 37 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-03 13:05:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going to the University of Minnesota next year and my boy friend is staying here in New Mexico. He wants me to remain with, I don't know what to do. My parents are continually encourgaing me to break up with him on graduation day. I don't want to, but do parents really know what's best.

2007-04-03 13:05:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have forgotton what intimate love feels like, i'm not sad, i'm just reflecting on the subject.

it would be nice if a girl noticed me :)

what do you think??

2007-04-03 13:05:08 · 18 answers · asked by dodge 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-03 13:02:38 · 24 answers · asked by Amanda!! ya baby! 1 in Singles & Dating

Are there Arranged marriages in South Asia?
Do the women get treated Equally in their marriages?
Is there any sites that might help me out with all of this?? Help please. . .

2007-04-03 12:59:45 · 6 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while. We have broken up before but got back together. Since the last time we broke up, we went back out.... and it's been kind of long. And I don't know. Everytime I'm with him it is so great now! Better than all of the other times before. I mean, I miss him the minute I take my eyes off of him and we always call, and text. It's like this wierd feeling that I have never got before and... can I be In LOVE? I mean This is my first "real" relationship" with anyone and he is the best person I have ever MET! He makes me happy, feel special, and all of the ABOVE things. I know it can be fake... but what if it's not? Is it possible that we can have a futer together? We have had bad times but we always work them out and make it up. I know something could happen but you never know right/??

2007-04-03 12:57:43 · 22 answers · asked by armygirl89 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend and I were talking about guys who date two woman at the same time and how one woman hemmed this guy up while the other girl was over and asked him to choose and she would stay there until he did, the other girl told ole boy when he decided what he wanted to do holla back and she wasnt sticking around for him to choose, Some guys would want the one who stuck there and some would want for the girl who left. What is your out look on this issue and why?

2007-04-03 12:55:17 · 8 answers · asked by t.C.C 1 in Singles & Dating

do you like to see your girl

1)dressed in a t-shirt & shorts while lounging in the house?any specific reason?

2)having long hair,medium or short?why?

3)wearing makeup or no makeup?why?

4)with hair tied up or let down loose?why?

5)when going out,in jeans or skirts?why?

6)in long skirts or short skirts?why?

7)in stilettos or pumps?why?

8)happily smiling or seductive look?why?

9)funny & fun or laidback & smooth?why?

10)in red or black lace lingerie?why?

thanks-just bored & curious! :)

2007-04-03 12:52:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My guy and I have had sex several times now and while it's wonderful, I've never had an orgasm. He would always feel really bad that it wasn't happening so I started faking it to make him feel better. I love him so the fact that it hasn't happened would never cause me to break up with him, but is it bad that i'm faking it to make him feel better about himself? And is there anything I can do to have one?

2007-04-03 12:46:04 · 24 answers · asked by c_tap77 2 in Singles & Dating

there's this guy named Sam that I don't like at all. I met him in June 06, and ever since, he's been calling me off and on. I didn't even give him my phone number, his cousin did. I told him a few months ago that I didn't want a boyfriend and that I did not see a future between him and I, and he is still calling me? I just use him for beer. I know its wrong, but hey, if he allows himself to get played, then is that my problem? I've already told him how I feel. I saw him yesterday and we hung out (and drank) and I tricked him into taking me home after I got what I wanted (alcohol). I know he would've been angry with me if I told him that I wanted to go home so early, so I asked him if he wanted to go to a hotel later on...( I really didn't have any intentions on doing so). and I told him I would pay for it and everything. I told him that I would call him at five and I never did. So he called me like ten times, and then twice today, and I haven't picked up. Is he desperate?

2007-04-03 12:45:59 · 16 answers · asked by Yvette S 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend asked me to help her film a scene in her movie where a couple gets married, and I have no idea what is said by the priest. can you please help me? Thanks!,
-WOnko

2007-04-03 12:45:05 · 4 answers · asked by WOnko 1 in Weddings