I think this guy likes me but hes totally dorky, and he keeps STARING AT ME!!!! What do I do?????
2007-04-03 13:07:41 · 37 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK to all of those who are calling me a brat, QUIT IT!!!! I am like, a total introvert and have gone out with plenty of dorks. What I ment was, He is soooo ugly, you can't go out with someone you think is ugly.
2007-04-03 13:13:55 · update #1
It's not what's on the outside that counts, it's what's on the inside that counts. Some guys or girls might not look the best but if you don't give them a chance, you might miss out on the best thing out there. And if you give him a chance and you find out that their's more to him then being a dork, you might just start seeing him more then skin deep because true love is loving someone with your heart, not with your eyes. And if your truely not interested in him, Just tell him nicely that your not interested and then just ignore him.
2007-04-03 13:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal A 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So what if hes a dork youd be comelety different if the hot guy would stare at you all day, anyways if you dont like the gey talk to him and tell him you are not interested but tell him in a nice way.
2007-04-03 13:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by elizacandle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Dorks have feelings too. Just let it go. Don't be mean whatever you do. I wouldn't encourage him, but be kind. He will get over it. Besides...just because someone is a dork doesn't mean that they don't know a nice person or a good looking person when they see one. It is a compliment.
2007-04-03 13:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well for one you shouldn't go out with someone for their looks. You should go out with someone for their personality. If you talk like the way you talk now than yea hun you are a pain. Thats wrong that your goin' to judge somebody and say eww thats gross that a dork likes me. Hun do you even know what a dork is? Trust it ain't guy. Next time you want to say that a dork likes you make sure you judge him by his personality not his looks.
2007-04-03 13:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take it from me and be nice to him because what goes around just comes around so believe it or not if you say he is a dork and ugly so you treat him bad do not be mad when some one does this to you too
2007-04-03 13:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, I feel sorry for him. You obviously aren't worth his affection if you are so superficial. Girls like you have screwed me up pretty bad because I tend to be pretty dorky and geeky at times. But I am sure that he will find another girl to stare at soon... I mean, there are plenty of other girls in your 4th grade class!!!
Seriously, grow up! I don't normally reccomend TV, ESPECIALLY MTV after they destroyed music and all, but watch Beauty and the Geek. It will hopefully help you grow a heart, and understand that we are all people, and worthy of being loved, you stuck up little girl. Hopefully your mind changes before you hit puberty...
2007-04-03 13:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by rocknrollcommando 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds to me like your the ugly one. people cannot help how they look. Remember the dorks have the last laugh. They are usually more successful then some one like you. get over it. feel flattered.
2007-04-03 13:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by linda a 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just ignore him. Even dorks are allowed to have crushes.
2007-04-03 13:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by Dale D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well gently but without backing down tell him that u will only like him as a friend and nothing more. if u dont even want him as a friend *a lil harsh there* just try to ignore him and definitely dont give him ur phone #, email, or im. if u don't chase after him then he will stop chasing after u. just remember to b kind, and obvious. don't worry its probably just a crush *yay u!* and he'll get over it. hope this helps!
2007-04-03 13:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by ~ *Amber* ~ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Guys stare at girls. We actually have to make an effort not to do this. If he doesn't approach you then just ignore it.
If he does approach you then just be honest and say you are not interested. Girls tend to try "hints" but guys don't get hints.
2007-04-03 13:17:44 · answer #10 · answered by Rob 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋