Family & Relationships - 3 April 2007

lets say you and a guy live far away from eachother..but you like eachother a lot. all of the guys friends make fun of him because he likes a girl who lives four hours away, and all the other guys want in life is ***. if one of the guys cousins was making fun of him and then the guy you like said..dress night tonight were getting some *****..is that normal because hes trying to fit in with his tough cousin? and now someone asked him what hes doing friday and he said "probably getting laid and drunk out of my mind"


why is he saying this..is this normal because we live far away and we are NOT in a long distance relationship? is he trying to get my attention, or is he trying to get over me because we cant be together right now? whats your opinion?

2007-04-03 14:55:38 · 5 answers · asked by olaa l 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-03 14:55:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

the details he kept that from me over 4and a half years and flat lied about it on more than one occassion.he was never the best lover but when things took a turn and he couldnt perform i went to the doctors and was loving patient and sympathetic,i suggested we watch some porn you know to spice things up he acted like he could never do that like it was awful.it wasnt a random act thats what was so hard and not just porn. he was going to dating sites and pretending to be single the whole time but was unable to have sex with his wife and i tried everthing .i wrote the poem because i wanted him to know how belittling it was to me and the other women as well.to me it was as though he had cheated.i was in the best shape of my life at that time i had my pick of men and i chose him there was no reason for him to even look anywhere else i was the best he ever had i made it a point to be. i want people to know if you lie to your partner the truth will be found out and trust is hard to get back.

2007-04-03 14:54:56 · 1 answers · asked by dixie58 7 in Marriage & Divorce

i cant tell if this guy likes me he is always staring at me and when i catch i try to smile to him but he looks away real fast,when he does talk to me he is really quiet and shy sounding,and he is sooooooo cute i like him but does it sound like he likes me??? plz i need help

2007-04-03 14:52:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend likes to cut them open and put stuff that's not tobacco in them. Should I talk to him about how wrong that is?

2007-04-03 14:50:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know he is feeling a lot. He does this while his eyes are watering. So when I just read copying is a form of control I was very surprised.

2007-04-03 14:48:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have a 15 month old, we've been married almost two years, and our careers and relationship have deteriorated to nearly nothing. We're very hateful almost all the time, and I'm miserable and can't get out. Can't think, can't function, just cry a lot about everything. I don't want to feel sorry for myself, but trust me, it's bad... I can't afford to get out. What do I do?

2007-04-03 14:45:26 · 32 answers · asked by Jane D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, it was July and my family and I went to a basketball game and left the place late (not too late) as well as would like to look for a place to eat for dinner except the navigation system went down, and we have got lost in the city and my mom want to stop and look for a place. Most of the restaurants were close, except the one right in front of us. We were one of the very last people to go in. And that's How I MET MY CRUSH!!!

Please say nice things, NO RUDE answers thank you!

2007-04-03 14:44:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My "friend" tells me to go hug a tree whenever she sees me because I don't eat pot roast. I just happen to not like pop roast. It is nasty. I am afraid to invite her over anymore because all my toiletries practically yell out "WE DO NOT TEST ON ANIMALS!" What do I do?

2007-04-03 14:42:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship and have been together for almost 2 years. I guess it’s always been difficult but it’s been terrible as of recently. My boyfriend’s course load has increased causing him to cut our conversations short to get his work done. Calling is our main form of communication so, YES this is a problem. This makes me so angry! I could find another guy in a second! BUT I choose to be with HIM because he’s everything I want in a man. He should appreciate me, damn it! BUT THEN AGAIN, we’ve always told each other, WORK comes first. That was fine, when everything was balanced but he can’t seem to do it all the time now. I talked to him about it and he said he’s going to try but it’s not enough. So, when my boyfriend said he was going to cut the amount of time we see each other during the vacation, it blew my top. He says it’s only going to get worse in grad school. I love him but I’m going to kill him if this keeps up. What am I supposed to do now?

2007-04-03 14:41:03 · 6 answers · asked by dumdum4eva 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy who sat behind me in math class in the beging to the school started talking to me.i thought he talked to me cause he wanted to talk to my other friend.after we moved seats,he came over to me and ask if i want to work with him (i thought he just wanted to copy answers) but i didn't want to be mean so i said yes.now, he asked to work with me almost everyday (he offered to teach me how to play the guitar but i have to come over to his house). when we do our work, he always finds a reason to hold my hands ortouch me (sort of) Anyways, about a few days ago, he asked what kind of guy i like and all that. then he took a few guess, but i never quite answered his questions. then on friday last week, he told me he liked his freshman girl who has brown hair, cute and is in his class (i'm a freshman who has brown/black).i told him i liked this his guy and today,he asked for my crush's url.i asked him if he like the girl and he said he doesn't like her anymore.he just want to be her friend

2007-04-03 14:37:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Which of the following scenarios is worse?

1.) Significant other is out of town for the weekend, you go out to a bar, dance all night with someone and end up making out back at their place which may or may not lead to one night of drunk sex.

2.) Everyday at lunch you meet a coworker that you find attractive and do nothing but talk, share intimate details, confide in and flirt with, this friendship eventually becomes an out of work friendship, meeting up for drinks, talking about your relationship, your dreams, your desires etc....so far this has not become physical.

Which is worse?

2007-04-03 14:28:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls always wait for a guy to go out with them but if u r shy like me or stupid u may miss the signs from the girls. I wish girls would sometime make the first move i know it sound weird. What do u think.

2007-04-03 14:26:54 · 8 answers · asked by Mat B 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do some guys seem so hot and cold with their emotions? One minute it seems he's into me the next I'm invisible. I've known this guy for almost 3yrs...what's up with this?

2007-04-03 14:26:32 · 6 answers · asked by Sweet Honey 4 in Singles & Dating

bet you cant make that flower

2007-04-03 14:25:48 · 10 answers · asked by nana 1 in Friends

Okay heres the thing, I am living with my boyfriend of one year. We have been on rocks for about the last 4 months. Talked about it all, except for the fact I feel him more as a friend,nothing more. The lust is gone, I wish I could tell him all of this, but i dont want too hurt him..he will be very upset, he talks about our future babies. On the other hand, I am falling for my good friend, we talk about everything and the lust part I know I would have with friend if we were together. I know I am meant to be with him, but the whole problem with that is, I have not met the friend, we are online buddies, lol, sounds dumb I know but thats how it is, I have known him online for about 2 years now. But he wants to meet..So i feel under pressure, I need to make a choice, but im scared..anyone have advice or suggestions please, , thankyou

2007-04-03 14:24:48 · 15 answers · asked by *CoUrAgE* 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is paying almost 800.00 a month for a child he has never seen, he met this lady off the internet and had like a one time thing and she got prego, I feel that he should pay something for this child but we are married and have a child together and almost half of his pay goes to this woman, what are the laws on getting the payment reduced or is that even possable? Any help would be great. Thia happend way before we met.

2007-04-03 14:24:34 · 11 answers · asked by tinkerbell7629 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there hope ?
IS THERE HOPE IN A RELATIONSHIP IF YOUR MATE GETS DRUNK AND HITS YOU ONE NIGHT IF THEY SAY THEY WONT DO IT AGAIN DID THEY ALREADY OVER STEP THERE BOUNDRIES BY HITTING YOU DOES THIS MEAN THEY WILL THINK ITS OK IF THERE IS A SECOND CHANCE?

2007-04-03 14:22:18 · 11 answers · asked by ASYLUM 1 in Family

My husband recently went awol because he said that being in AIT made him feel like he was going to seriously kill himself. I'm not sure what I should do. I'm afraid to tell him to go back, but I don't want him to go to jail. What would you do?

2007-04-03 14:19:42 · 11 answers · asked by Katherine J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee freind cheats on her husband all the time with my friend. He's engage and she is married. My lady is a trust worthy person ,but when she hangs with her she flirts. But even with that being said I still love her, Im not perfect my self.But Im not tryin to get waist deep in a relationship if she is about games. An I feel like a bad apple can spoil the bunch.
p.s
to top it off /her friend is the kind of lady that feel like all men are dogs, an life dont get better.

what shoud I do or say???????????

So come on people in the world give me a answer.
I know your there. Because Im here at the computer waiting for your advice.
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An for the ladies that relpy to this message ," Good Men are Out by the Dozen Im . Dont believe the sci-fi

2007-04-03 14:17:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I work as the I.T guy at my place of employment. In my job I have to from time to time look in to what others are doing on their computers. What I seen today has me puzzled on what to do. There is a guy call him Ken and a lady call her Barbie. I found out by reading emails that they are sleeping together. Both married to other people. Ok not much new there these days. The problem is Barbie is good friend with someone I am good friends with. We will call her Dawn. Now the problem is Dawn’s son is dating Barbie’s daughter. To make it worse Dawn also works at the same place that the rest of us work. Now my question is do I say anything or let the cards fall as they may?

2007-04-03 14:14:25 · 26 answers · asked by cliff1224 4 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you plan for a really nice wedding?

2007-04-03 14:12:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

she's not into jewelry (so its not like you gotta take her shoppin for it or buy it for her) she likes sports as much as u do, doesnt gossip to u about drama or watever, she's funny, pretty (is told she looks like penelope cruz, ifu consider her pretty) likes action and war movies so u dont have to worry bout her draggin you to a chick flick.

would u go out wit this girl or does she seem like too much of a tomboy?

2007-04-03 14:10:26 · 22 answers · asked by PAISA 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a guy, and my friend is a girl, we are pretty good friends, but lately everytime i call her house, i get the answering maching, i leave a message, she doesn't return my call, I call her cellphone, get the answering maching, i leave a message, never gets returned. i call several more times, using different phone numbers and even trying *67 ( it blocks your name and number). I even drove by her house to see if their car was in their driveway... why am i being ignored?!?! its driving me crazy...

2007-04-03 14:09:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do all GUYZ look for big CHEST AREA in a girl friend? I mean like in middle school...13 year old boyz. b cuz a lot of the girls in my class develope quickley and I am not one of those girls...but does it really matter?

2007-04-03 14:08:41 · 2 answers · asked by T.G.I.F.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-03 14:05:43 · 19 answers · asked by sexy chic 1 in Weddings

curious - how do you mostly like to see women/girls dressed?

2007-04-03 14:05:10 · 5 answers · asked by sophia bush 4 in Singles & Dating

like it 3 to 4 times a week. She gives it to me once a week but she'd probably be happier with once a month. I wish she was more into it. Thoughts? Please don't suggest more romance. I have tried pretty much everything with no success. Our marriage is perfect other than that. Well, no marriage is perfect but you know what I mean. We have talked so many times about it I couldn't even count them all. We have tried different B/C, I have tried to get her in the mood in different ways, nothing has worked. It is not really boring but infrequent. We are both willing to try almost anything (within reason... no swinging, stuff like that). Do you think I just have to live with it. I read an Ann Landers column once and she said you shouldn't marry someone like that. She said you will always be resentful and unhappy. I think she was partially right but it is only a small part of an otherwise awesome relationship.

I posted this a couple of days ago and wanted to provide some additional information because of some of the responses. We are both in our late 20's. We are both fairly healthy, not overweight. We have no kids (we plan to in a year or 2). We both work full time and are good financially. Neither of us work much more than 40 hrs a week. We share all the responsibilities at home. We don't really follow a set schedule. We clean when the house is getting dirty, we take turns doing the dishes when the sink gets full, take turns cooking, go out when we feel like it, we spend a lot of time together and do a lot of things together. We have been going on vacations at least once a year. When she doesn't want it, she just says no. When I don't want it, I usually just do it anyway to make her happy. It isn't that difficult.

2007-04-03 14:04:43 · 36 answers · asked by Fall 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am only 17 years old...I have been to weddings before but I never payed attention to a single thing! I have absolutly no clue what to do...can someone that's done this before help me out? I really need some solid advice.

2007-04-03 14:03:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have a girl I like in my school, and a lot of people know that I like her. Should I just ask her out so other people will stop talking about it?

2007-04-03 14:01:38 · 10 answers · asked by beisbolfreak94 2 in Singles & Dating