My husband is paying almost 800.00 a month for a child he has never seen, he met this lady off the internet and had like a one time thing and she got prego, I feel that he should pay something for this child but we are married and have a child together and almost half of his pay goes to this woman, what are the laws on getting the payment reduced or is that even possable? Any help would be great. Thia happend way before we met.
2007-04-03 14:24:34 · 11 answers · asked by tinkerbell7629 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is there a possibility that the child is not his? I would be concerned that the child was conceived out of a one - time incident with a woman he hardly knew. Isn't it possible that he was not the only guy that she was with at that time? or is there no doubt because the child resembles your husband?
There are ways to get a reduction in support. He'd have to file with the court. Half of his paycheck is a lot of money for one child.
2007-04-03 14:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you took on the responsibility when you married him. The circumstances under which this child was conceived is irrelevant. Support is for the child irrespective of how it got here. If support is like you say, half of what he makes, sounds a little out of line. As for legal advice, the only qualified individuals to give you that are attorney's.
2007-04-03 15:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by Healthy Lifestyle Geek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child support is a necessary evil. THe laws for it differ from place to place.... that you can't get blood from stone doesn't stop people from trying. Seek advice from the child support agency administering the payments.
Or you could employ the "deadbeat dad" strategy.... do what half the known married world does and seperate from him then file your own claim, in which case the other family will have to share that $800 ...... cruel thoughts but 100% of divorces start with marriage, you know.
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2015-02-02 11:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His first child comes first...whether he sees the child or not, whether he is married and has a dozen other children or not. This child is entitled to one third of his income based upon the lifestyle the child is accostumed to as well as cost of living where the child lives. Half of his pay does NOT go to the woman...it goes to support the child he CHOSE to create. It's not the mother's fault that your now husband chose to unzip his fly and let his penis play. And until that child reaches the age of majority according to the support decree he is going to have to pay what the court has set up for him to pay whether YOU like it or not. YOU chose to marry a man with "baggage". Don't blame this other woman or her child for that...THAT was YOUR fault.
2007-04-03 19:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the child isn't his,how does he know for sure??? If this was a one night stand,who knows who else she slept with.And if he is paying child support he might just want to meet the kid to see what kind of life style his baby is living, so atleast you know if the mom is buying her things with the money your husband is sending her.
2007-04-03 14:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by rissann22 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not try a test to see if this is his child.... ask the court for custody... or at least visitiation right and how about him getting have the parent right where he has the child( if it's his) one weekend while she has the child other weekend... maybe that might make the payment go down slightly.... good luck
2007-04-03 14:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by molly_tony 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let ur husband have DNA test. if the the is not his blood, u shud go to attorney to file a case. this is harassment.
if this child is his blood, u shud also go to attorney for legitimate child rights.
2007-04-03 14:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by PG_13 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We reap what we sow.
Tell ur husband to contact his attorney.
2007-04-03 14:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by wisdom_women 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him to go to an attorney
2007-04-03 14:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋