I am really really bad tempered.
I get on my mother's nerves for 3 days as minimum wearing her down.
I know I must not do it but I cannot help acting against my true nature.
I wanna say I am sorry the next minute but I can't.
Am I seek? or Should I blame my mother for missing something out when I was a kid?
2007-04-03 20:52:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
stop telling me that my family can die. Stop mentioning it please.
2007-04-03 21:34:22 · update #1
I have a temper sometimes too. However it certainly is "possible to act against your true nature." It takes hard work and tons of practice but you can change.
Ask your mother to stop you the very second that you start to act up. Or better still, excuse yourself BEFORE you even begin to lose your temper, and go sit alone in your room for a few minutes. Then come back and sincerely apologise for the abrupt exit. Share your problem with your mother, but the blame and the responsibility is YOURS.
A bad temper doesn't deserve the company of civilized people so get yourself undercontrol - You can do it. Just practice and get to recognise it when your stomach starts to get in knots. That's the time to take charge and leave - until you settle yourself down emotionally. And all of us young or old must take responsibility for our own bad behaviour. If we blame what we do on others we are still children at 70 or 80 years old.
Every night before you go to sleep, think about the things your mum has done for you since you were a baby. 'Gratitude' is what you need to be a calmer, happier person. We all need to feel it because it helps us see things in a different way.
2007-04-03 21:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
hi there ............oh dear ....you have a bad temper ......you get on youre mothers nerves for three days ,or could it be that you missed out on something when you where a kid !!!?? well how about going to therapy for the temper tantrums that you seem to have and also how about growing up ........you have got on my nerves this woman brought you into this world and has wipt youre backside ,cleaned up youre sick as a kid did wverything that she could do for you .....and you think that you have a problem !!!! well you have with me ....do you realise that one day you wont have her and believe me that day you never want to come .....stop youre crap with youre mother and love and look after her this is the only one you will ever have .......get a grip of youre self .......blame her for something that you missed out on a kid ......you really do need therapy ..
2007-04-03 21:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Parents do the best they can. Sometimes it can be pretty bad anyway. They can't even start to fix something if they don't know what the problem is, so you need to talk to them. If, after that they refuse to compromise or tell you their reasons for why they treat you in a certain matter, you are free to leave when you come of age.
2007-04-03 21:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There's a thing called a belt and apparently your parents never learned to use it on you.
What you need is some discipline! I don't say that to be horribly mean but the way you treat your mother is unacceptable.
My mother wasn't a perfect mother but I can't imagine EVER talking to her or treating her this way. What if she died tomorrow? You would live a lifetime of regret for your actions! You really do need discipline.
2007-04-03 21:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What if they were all killed in a car accident or eaten by sharks or something and you were still not talking to them. You would feel horrible for the rest of your life.
Really seek.
I didn't get along with my family and didn't to most of them for over 20 years.
They were all killed in a freak circus accident.
It makes me feel seek.
2007-04-03 20:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
no you shouldnt you were young and if it was serious then it depends on how serious and you should forgive her everyone makes mistakes and she could be dead b 4 you tell her how much you thank her for being your mum and helping you get through life you should be greatful and spiteful and you should talk to her about it : ) i hoe i have helped you
2007-04-03 21:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by Cj : ) 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You could help it if you really wanted to. Have you tried? Have you sought help? Temper tantrums are for 3yr olds, sounds like you haven't progressed very far.
2007-04-07 08:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by Smilinez 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think you need to appreciate them more. That will help you to behave better.
2007-04-07 02:22:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hatred, anger, revenge,....etc
all are ugly things in this world.
anyone can die any moment.
love and care each other while we are alive together...
2007-04-03 21:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by Steven A 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i wish i could understand u better!!!
2007-04-03 20:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by <_> 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋