Should I confess to my parents?

Question

Im 21 years old and married.
My husband and I have our own home.
I try to be very morally correct.
I waited until I was married to have sex.

But last week I did something so disgusting. Let me explain last week my parents went on a cruise for their 25th anniversary.. and asked my husband and I to house sit, you know come over feed the plants and so on.
Well when I was feeding the plants in my parents room... we kinda ended up having sex in their bed, neither of us were thinking we were just making love and I felt so bad afterwards, I even trashed their sheets and shampooed their matress with the carpet cleaner, but I still feel bad that was my parents bed... I would feel violated if i knew someone was having sex in my bed and I want to confess so bad.. my husband takes me as a joke... either I confess are buy them a whole new bedroom suite and make it an extra gift theyre not due back until saturday.. what should I do?
Im very serious..
Thanks alot!

Answer 1

Hey, don't be a prude. You had sex in their bed, so what? Wash the bed sheets, iron those, put them back and that's it. Your parents will surely think you're too stupid and childish if you confess such a thing. If you don't feel peaceful until you confess, go ahead. But frankly I consider you little childish and dump for thinking about it. No offense, but grow up a bit and act like one, not like an eternal virgin child.

Answer 2

If you buy a new bedroom suite for your parents they would be asking to themselves why. (why the bedroom? why not the living room or the bathroom,etc.?) What you did was wrong and your husband didnt give a heck.(and I am sure he wouldnt do that in his parents bed). So, you know what? even if this is a joke for your husband this is something you will remember for the rest of your life. Yeah, is that serious.

Answer 3

truthfully talk on your dad and mom, or you will get counseling on your person. i'm no longer asserting you have a issue, yet hiding something like that would reason emotional and psychological matters. sometimes you could no longer help who you have an interest in, and that is truthfully an extremely good element which you found out that that is incorrect. attempt counseling and notice if that enables in any respect. good luck!! P.S. Going to counseling would not propose there is something incorrect with you, opposite to what extremely some human beings have self assurance. It means you're in seek of solutions and staying mentally healthful!

Answer 4

It is quite normal for anyone to use the parents bed and that I feel you are taking things to the heart in such a manner that you feel guilty. There is no need for you to tell your parents or buy them new bedroom suite. Just be normal without feeling guilty.

Answer 5

No, do not tell them. Do you really want your parents to have an image of you and your husband going at it in their bedroom? Let this be a secret between you and your husband. Everytime you go to your Mom's house you can look at each other and smile at the memories.

Answer 6

I agree what they dont know wont hurt them. At least you were respectful enough to clean up after. Your married sex is never dirty. You can have sex anywhere you choose. Congrats on staying pure till your wedding night.

Answer 7

I understand your feelings.. It is perfectly OK to make love on your parents bed with your husband.. If it makes you feel better, tell your Mom about it, and believe me, she will not feel bad about it either.. You just relax

Answer 8

At 21,you should have known better,to have sex on your mom's bed! You could have at least went into the livingroom.

Answer 9

Your silly, don't worry about it, your parents were young once to, believe it or not! They will never know-so stop worrying.

Answer 10

What does it matter? No harm done, just look back on it and smile.