Family & Relationships - 3 April 2007

My daughters boyfriend is here everyday when i get home from work he has no job . He helps her around the house but when i come in he's just sitting their doing nothing and it drives me crazy

2007-04-03 19:56:49 · 11 answers · asked by Janette R 3 in Family

Could you see your best friend trying to take your man or your girl?

2007-04-03 19:51:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-03 19:45:01 · 7 answers · asked by blkhawk1000 2 in Family

For example, if a guy sees a blond girl, would he be able to say something like "oh she looks like the type who would go for this type of guy..." etc. etc.

Basically do guys guess on what type of guys girls are into based on the girls' looks?

2007-04-03 19:18:28 · 10 answers · asked by pharmdcougargal12 3 in Singles & Dating

My mother and father separated 3 years ago. Mum left because police called. Now my dad who is 49 has a 23 year old girlfriend - I hate her - and don't want anything to do with her. My mother went nuts when she found out she says what is he teaching us boys (we live with dad). She sleeps over. Is this sick?

2007-04-03 19:10:30 · 15 answers · asked by Liz G 2 in Family

2007-04-03 18:57:52 · 7 answers · asked by lala15 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Some guy at school gave me a kiss I didn't want. I have to tell my BF cause I don't lie to him. Would that kiss with the guy count as cheating on my BF?

2007-04-03 18:55:43 · 18 answers · asked by SmashJ 2 in Singles & Dating

recently my husband found out that his life long dream of getting into vet school is not going to be a reality. What other jobs can you get with a BS in Animal Science and how can i make him feel better about the situation?

2007-04-03 18:54:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone may have different yet even some similar responces to this. Everyone desires differing things as well. But, I wonder what do you feel is Most important? Whats the most important sign to you that some on is that special ONE the one who is, to you, "Forever."?

2007-04-03 18:51:20 · 34 answers · asked by John S 3 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy and we have been fooling around a couple times a month but i think he just wants that one thing but i want more than that how do i tell him with out making a fool of myself???

2007-04-03 18:49:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last year, I quit my job in the corporate world & went into business with a friend.
My wife was totally cool with this decision, she knew I was unhappy & needed a change. She was very supportive & thought it was right thing to do.
I was really enjoying not being in corporate world & being my own boss.
Then a few weeks ago, I decided on the spur of the moment that it would be cool to pierce my left ear. I went out to the mall & got it done. Then, I walked by a shoe store & threw away my New Balance shoes & got a cool pair of vans slip-ons.
I made the mistake of not telling her about it at first. The new look is causing a lot of friction between us, Am I being selfish or is she being too rigid?? Any thoughts???

2007-04-03 18:43:30 · 22 answers · asked by oklastguy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean getting over your first love is pretty hard at least for me cuz she's everything that i wanted in a girl she has a great personality and shes really cute, but the thing is i dont know if i can be with her cuz me and her come from two different religions shes Muslim and im Hindu and if i wanted to get serious with her i cant, then i have to leave my religion behind to follow hers and i dont want to live my life as a huge compromise. I feel hopeless though, after you find someone that you really want to get intimate with and then realizing that you cant be with that person. what are the chances that im going to find someone like her again?

2007-04-03 18:40:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in winter and I'm still not sure of what kind of wedding dress to wear.

2007-04-03 18:40:18 · 11 answers · asked by shaby 1 in Weddings

I am planning on getting married sometime this year and my fiancee is kind of dissapointed in me. He has always envisioned this huge romantic wedding, but the way i see it,my family is WAY too dysfuntional to all be in the same room together!! I want to just go downtown and get it done at the courthouse. Am i being selfish???

2007-04-03 18:37:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-04-03 18:34:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is 21. I've been with him for 2 years.

He is VERY spoiled! His dad works constantly....always going out of town, working 12+ hour shifts, etc.. to keep their family provided with more money than they need. His mom stays at home...She is the parent that he spent most of his childhood with. She is very sweet and extremely passive. She is also very sensitive, as he knows and takes advantage of at times. She gives him money every week, takes care of all of the expenses for his apartment and college education and even does some shopping for him on top of all that.

When he wants more $, he usually gets it. But if she says no, he'll make her feel bad about herself and hurt her feelings, so she'll write him a check to get him away from her. Sometimes he'll just tease her and "push her buttons" to see how she'll react, but other times he is extremely mean.

He tries to push my buttons too, but he knows that in the end I won't put up with it like his mom.

Will this continue?

2007-04-03 18:31:24 · 14 answers · asked by peaches 1 in Singles & Dating

Do u think its true when they say everything happens for a reason? Do u think some people are really meant for eachother and that everyone has a soulmate? or how bout "if its meant to be it will always find a way"..(or whatever.) Then how come some people never find their true love and die? WHat do u guys think??

2007-04-03 18:30:11 · 19 answers · asked by PinkDiamond♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-03 18:30:10 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-03 18:29:55 · 13 answers · asked by confused girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And there will never be a gf/bf love relationship between you two but you can have spiritual sister brother relationship? How would you feel if a averge looking type of your friend opens up to you about what she strongly believe and have devoted herself

2007-04-03 18:29:29 · 7 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-03 18:27:03 · 11 answers · asked by little one 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf and i are you know doing it but it seems that every time we do it for the past couple of times it gets worse and worse. i mean rt now he does not want to try new positions which pisses me off and also i dont know there is not as much of everything in the action itself. i am 22 and work out 4 times a week and in great shape=take kickboxing cardio class, a cardio dance class and a yoga class. then can some1 tell me how to fix this problem? i mean i dont want ne more boring sex and it seems as though it wont improve ne more..ne advice would help..

PS: my bf and i have been going out for 20 months, recently broke up like a couple of weeks ago-5weeks- and are back together.so what is the problem?

2007-04-03 18:25:44 · 1 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

my fiance and i have very unique tastes and are going for a goth and roll sort of wedding. dark dramatic colors and all that. we are pulling ideas from travis barker's wedding, and bam and missy margera's. now, due to some superstitions in my family we cant use your average wedding songs to walk down the asile to. so i need a song to walk down the asile to. So far my ideas include something slower and mellow by Apocolyptica. im looking for any suggestions that have a gothic edge, but dont sound sad. im willing to listen to any suggestions, be they classical, or just the acoustic version of some metal song out there. we are also looking for a similar song for when we exit the church. help please!

2007-04-03 18:24:10 · 1 answers · asked by Ashley M 7 in Weddings

are they more desirable then anybody else i'm just interested because it seems like men will see a blonde and even without seeing her face will assume that she's pretty please no dumb answers

2007-04-03 18:22:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Well, my bf is from different country and we will have to wait 1 year till we meet in real life. Any ideas of how to be a good online girlfriend ? :S

2007-04-03 18:22:08 · 26 answers · asked by Nathalie Sicard 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-03 18:19:08 · 8 answers · asked by thefruithatateitself 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, my best friend of 19 yrs, someone ive known since i was born, (which makes me 19) has hurt me horribly, we are studying the same course at uni, and i spent 40 hrs on an assignment we had, she comes and stays over, and she is allowed to use my laptop and the net, i went and had a shower, trusting her, and just was was walking back in my room and laid down on my bed next to her, i thought i saw my assignment name on her email as she was sending it to herself of my laptop, i didnt want to ask her, but instead, i rang my mum, and told her, and she told me to tell the teacher, to the next day at uni, i went and told him, and he said he would look out for it when we hand them in, but couldnt do much because for all he knew, i might have been the one stealing it, and saying it was mine.. Anyway i got my results back this week, with a dirty letter telling me that in has indeed been copied, and that someone used someone elses work, and had huge chucks high lighted to show me whats been used

2007-04-03 18:17:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a question or two.. I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years, and just recently we've established careers.. well he said he did want to get engaged once everything settled.. well lately he's been hiding text messages, and calls from me. He texts right in front of me but NEVER lets me see anything. He says it is a surprise and that I will really like it and that he's getting advice from his best friend on what to do. I keep bothering him about it because it makes me angry but he says "your going to ruin it... or why would i text another girl in front of you?"

On the flip side.. he says is scared that when everything settles down that I won't wanna move in with him but I tell him why wouldn't I after 4 years?

Anyway.. am I paranoid, or is he cheating?

2007-04-03 18:15:06 · 17 answers · asked by jenna d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Be honest guys,
Sereous answers only please.

2007-04-03 18:14:49 · 38 answers · asked by Tammy848 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a question or two.. I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years, and just recently we've established careers.. well he said he did want to get engaged once everything settled.. well lately he's been hiding text messages, and calls from me. He texts right in front of me but NEVER lets me see anything. He says it is a surprise and that I will really like it and that he's getting advice from his best friend on what to do. I keep bothering him about it because it makes me angry but he says "your going to ruin it... or why would i text another girl in front of you?"

On the flip side.. he says is scared that when everything settles down that I won't wanna move in with him but I tell him why wouldn't I after 4 years?

Anyway.. am I paranoid, or is he cheating?

2007-04-03 18:14:34 · 4 answers · asked by jenna d 1 in Singles & Dating