DOes everytHINgg happen for a REASOn??

Question

Do u think its true when they say everything happens for a reason? Do u think some people are really meant for eachother and that everyone has a soulmate? or how bout "if its meant to be it will always find a way"..(or whatever.) Then how come some people never find their true love and die? WHat do u guys think??

Answer 1

I don't know. "Everything happens for a reason" is one of those feel-better phrases that I turn to when I'm down, but I don't know how much I really believe it. I mean is there a reason why my life sucks and my crush ignores me even though we used to be really good friends? I don't know, maybe there is. I just hope I'm not one of those people that never finds anyone. Some people might never find true love because they are too scared. They are too reserved, and they can't reach out to anyone even though they really want to. I could see that happening to me because I've learned that I really suck at coming out of my shell. I think that no one truly wants to be alone, but there are still the sad few that never love. I really hope that isn't me...:(

Answer 2

Good Q. I do think that things a meant to be, but then sometimes I think that we like to blame the universe when things don't go right in out lives becasue we didn't make it happen for ourselves.

As far as soul mates I'm not to sure about that , I think that 2 people come together for a purpose theirs souls connect but actuall true love kinda thing where you will die for someone I don't think that exist with me I know I wouldn't die for my partner no matter how much I loved them.

And to answer your last Q, about some people not meet anyone I just think that they probably gave up on love or didn't persue it. Perhaps they just wern't meant to be with a soul partner in this life time and in the next life they will be. Any how this is what I believe.

Answer 3

I am a mother of 3 sons, and i can feel your pain, but you will get over her it will just take some time. My advice the same i gave my boys when there heart got broken; Try not to hang out the same places she does, the less you see of her the better for you to move on, and she is right don't talk about her to anyone in a bad way after all she did mean something to you and will for a while. Stay focus on school, and close friends that really help my sons when they broke up with there girlfriends. As for her loving you well being that i was once in love at your age with a young man, i did get over him with in a year and moved on, and So will you, and so will she. First young love can be very special one day when you are as old as i, you will look back and wonder what ever happen to her.

Answer 4

I ask myself this question almost everyday, and I will never know the answer. I am not religious. I know a lot of religious people who say God will take care of you, and you will fulfill your destiny. But I don't know.

When something amazing happens in my life, I feel like it HAD to happen for a reason. Like how my boyfriend and I ended up in the same class in college. He always says he wishes he would have lived his life differently, and finished high school, and went to college right out of high school. But then I think, well if you had done things differently then we wouldn't have met. And sometimes I feel like that was for a reason.

Also, I was attacked by a Golden Retriever. At the time it as very traumatic, it left scars on my face. I was horrified. But I now own a pit bull. The sweetest dog I have ever met. People all the time tell me "pit bulls are nasty dogs, why would you ever want to own one. Why not just get a Golden Retriever, they are always even tempered." Well, since that incident I can now tell them that every dog is an individual, regardless of the breed, and I have the experience of this.

And now I am working at a job that is sometimes miserable. I don't get along with a lot of the people, they don't treat me very nicely, and everyone is fighting all the time. I work with 15 other women. NO men. Right now I feel like this couldn't have happened for a reason, I don't particularly like this job. But later I might get something wonderful from my experience. So, conclusion: I don't know, I will never know.

Answer 5

Everything does happen for a reason example when a baby is born someone else dies!!! You have a soulmate out there,but don't look that hard he will come to you. usually everyone finds there Love not unless they are afraid to get out of the house and meet people enjoy others don't jump at the first guy!!!!!

Answer 6

Yes, there is a reason for everything under God's heaven. Of course, on earth some of the trials and tribulations we go through are questionable, but over all it is these trials that make us stronger. As far as soul mates .. it is possible as there are many people who just click and it works forever. Some people do not find their love because their heart is not open to it. Often people put up walls of protection and give signals that differ from what they say they want. There really is a reason for everything, and nothing is a coincident. Just like you asking the questions ...

Answer 7

I am certainly of the belief that everything happens for a reason. Myself and my partner were very wild when we were young and involved in very bad situations until we met. We were still wild and done what we want and were only seeing each other for 6 months when i found out i was almost 5 months pregnant and even though i done 5 home pregnancy tests none of them showed that i was pregnant until i was pass the stage of being able to abort (if that was my choice) and if it wasn't for me getting pregnant we wouldn't have stayed together and probably wouldv'e been in even worse situations than before so yes i believe ash didn't show up so that we didn't have a choice to make and so that his father and i stayed together and straightened our lives out.

Answer 8

I think everyone can look back eventually on somthing unpleasent that happend in their life and see it happend for a reason so yes I think so. I think soulmates its too religous sounding. I think some people can have great chemistry and are right for eachother while others have to work harder or just arn't.

Answer 9

If you beleive in GOD (Jesus Christ) he already has your life plan out before you where even born. All the good and bad that happens in your life GOD already known about it before it happen, your soulmate. Those that don't find there mate was not meant to be married, because that the way GOD plan their life. God gives us free will, we are here on earth is to worship him and only him.

Answer 10

Sure, I think things happen for a reason, and some people maybe missed the signs. It's like the guy sitting on his roof after a flood and a helicopter comes to rescue him, he says no thanks, God will rescue me. Well God did rescue him he just didn't see it. Hang in there you will find love in the most unexpected places.