Some guy at school gave me a kiss I didn't want. I have to tell my BF cause I don't lie to him. Would that kiss with the guy count as cheating on my BF?
2007-04-03 18:55:43 · 18 answers · asked by SmashJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think that is cheating if you didn't kiss him back. I think that cheating is when you do something that you wouldn't do if your partner was there
2007-04-03 19:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
any intimate contact with someone other than your boyfriend would be cheating. Let me ask you this: Why were you in a position for another guy to kiss you? Guys just don't go around kissing people. It sounds like he thought that it would be okay...
Your boyfriend should know and he will probably be forgiving toward you since you didn't ask for it. I suggest you flirt less or something.
2007-04-03 19:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by Illyanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but if it was an unwelcome act you need to be clear with the culprit! Do not tell the boyfriend, it is better left unsaid. All it will do is stir the pot .. and if you already made it clear to the other guy, leave it alone now. Go on with your life and your boyfriend. Don't continue the game. You were kissed, you did not have sex! Good luck!
2007-04-03 19:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. It is not something you initiated or asked for. Honesty is good also, and it is good that you are going to tell your boyfriend, so he will know what happened and that you were not interested. I would play it down as much as I could...make it into being no big deal and make sure your boyfriends knows that you told the other guy he was out of line.
2007-04-03 19:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, esp. since it wasn't invited, n sunds like the other guy was just being random or something, ya know? but make sure ur bf knows all that, cuz he may feel different, though i don't know what type of guy he may b. try to tell him b4 it gets around to him some other way- cud end up big trouble!
2007-04-03 19:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by Tawddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, no. As long as you didn't return the kiss. For example if you pulled away thats fine.
Just be careful telling your boyfriend, I hope he's not an angry person but it's good that you are being truthful.
2007-04-03 19:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by CSF 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you didn't return the gesture, it's not your fault. You didn't want to participate and it was forced upon you - you can't be forced to cheat. As long as your boyfriend is an understanding guy that trusts you, you should have no concerns.
2007-04-03 19:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't if you didn't like it.No need to tell your boyfriend at all.It will only cause trouble.It's called "stealing a kiss" and as long as there is no harm done(if you don't tell) you should be flattered.
2007-04-03 20:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you fought the kiss, and made it very clear while it was happening that you didn't want it, then no it is not cheating. if you just let it happen and didn't fight then i would say yes it is cheating.
2007-04-03 19:15:13 · answer #9 · answered by roansaga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldent consider it cheating becuase you dident make the move but it might make a difference if it was like on the lips or cheek but in any case the real question is if you boyfriend will get mad and become untrustful towards you but your best move is letting him know and if he loves you then its all good....goodluck
2007-04-03 19:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by YoUr WeLcOmE! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋