2007-04-03 18:34:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes yes i sure do. it happens all the time
2007-04-03 18:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in attraction at first sight. I'm not so cynical as to say it is always only lust, though that can and often is a part of the mix. But back in the day, I fell in love a time or two at first sight, and the immediate desire on my part, seriously, was that I wanted to get to know this person better. In one of those cases, we got over the love in that sense, but we remain close friends thirty years later. (We never so much as kissed.) So I think you can also be immediately attracted to a combination of a person's looks, thinking, sense of humor, outlook on life, ability to relate to other people, and a million other things.
But from day one, I've always had one internal rule: feelings are what tell my brain to THINK. That saved me from some potentially bad decisions, and it led to some excellent good ones. So try being a thinking man's romantic.
2007-04-04 01:45:32 · answer #2 · answered by ktd_73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There can be lust and an immediate attraction for someone, but not love. People only believe that they experienced this after they've been with someone, and are in love with them. Then, looking back, they might try to say that they felt that way about someone from the beginning, but they didn't. They were merely attracted or lustful.
2007-04-04 01:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, i think it's a sweet concept. but i honestly don't believe that true love is about looks. you have to actually know someone to love them. If you experience "love at first sight" you don't know the person, so how can you love them? Love should go deeper than physical appearance. So I say no
2007-04-04 01:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by Meg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OKay well i can only speak from experience.
I met my boyfriend walking down the street late one night. He said hello to me as i passed by him. We talked about the olympics.(i LOVE THE OLYMPICS) and i continued to walk. IT was maybe a two minute conversation.
When i got to my door i felt this voice inside me say, "that person is going to be very important in your life". Then i got this crazy urge to run out and try to find him. I went through my courtyard to the street to look for him but i couldnt find him.
The next day i went swimming and met him at the pool. he asked me for my number and we have been together ever since that day.
2007-04-04 01:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by shea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in lust at first sight...
Love takes time. You need good communication, commitment, trust, honesty, unity, friendship, etc. You can't get all that at first sight, can you?
2007-04-04 03:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by Fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never believed in it at first until I met my current boyfriend. From the minute I saw him I knew were perfect for each other. I believe that when you meet the right person you will know.
2007-04-04 01:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, I don't believe that this belief really exists. You can't be seriously admit to yourself that you can be in love with someone you really don't know. Maybe physical attraction, yes, but not love. Love takes time.
2007-04-04 01:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by kik0ish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i believe that to really love someone you need to know all about them flaws, warts and all. If you don't really know someone how can you say that you are in love with them, it wouldn't be love it would be lust.
2007-04-04 01:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than love actually. I always get the impression of seeing love, but never happen to me yet.
2007-04-04 01:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because you can't identify love with looks. Although, it sure helps people fall in love quicker. Most people confuse love with lust.
2007-04-04 01:39:26 · answer #11 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋