My daughters boyfriend is here everyday when i get home from work he has no job . He helps her around the house but when i come in he's just sitting their doing nothing and it drives me crazy
2007-04-03 19:56:49 · 11 answers · asked by Janette R 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hello... I know the feeling.. my daughters boyfriend comes over too, although he works, but sits around too. I can feel that he is trying to fit in. since we have to kinda except the young gentleman, or begin on a quest of disagreements with our daughters. Because we both know that shes gonna still see him... be it sneak or just go behind our backs. And we don't want that. So give him little jobs to do while your there.. he will either get tired of hanging around or you will get to know him a little better... to ease up on the anxiety... Good luck because we don't want to lose our little girls!!
2007-04-03 21:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by SexyCole 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If he does not live there but he does help around the house, then it is extremely rude to expect anything more. He is a guest, not a boarder.
While I understand your frustration, it still doesn't make it any less rude.
I wish you the best.
2007-04-03 20:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try telling your daughter you need some alone time. You might also ask her if she is willing to support this guy, because he has no interest in working and things don't automatically change if they get married.
2007-04-03 21:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Start with a note.
I want to come home to a quiet, empty house today. I plan on walking around in my undies.
It works.....
2007-04-03 21:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by siamesedream86 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell the bum to get out,get a job and go buy a vowel the letter 'Y' you still here ?
2007-04-03 20:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to leave. Its your house and you can tell him to go. It will probably piss your daughter off but oh well.
2007-04-03 23:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by celtic_princess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your house, tell both of them you don't want him around! If they don't like it, tough. You are the parent & the house is yours so put your foot down.
2007-04-03 21:26:06 · answer #7 · answered by Fab 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What i think is that itz not ur daughters' boyfriends fault itz ur daughters fault u should talk to ur daughter and tell her not to call him that often!! anywayz GOOD LUCK!!
2007-04-03 22:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her she needs to get a job or something. If she's not there he won't be.
2007-04-03 19:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by shorty2002 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you need family time.A so does he so he should spend more time with his family and Les with yours
2007-04-03 20:22:36 · answer #10 · answered by freddy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋