I have a long time friend that is female, I jokingly said she gained a few pounds...so she got angry with me, then the next day while I was out with her & a girlfriend of hers, she stated that she is getting fat, and they both just laughed????? I'm confused here.
2007-04-03 22:01:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did the girlfriend say it? Or your friend? Big difference. Say it yourself - that's fine. Hear it from someone else - instant insult.
If the girlfiend made the comment to your friend, don't be fooled. Your friend may have laughed in public...but behind closed doors she will be sticking pins into a voodoo doll of her girlfriend and plotting revenge LOL
NEVER comment on a woman's weight gain, dude. And if she asks if she looks fat... no matter if she can't fit between two BUILDINGS - the answer needs to be NO.
:-)
2007-04-03 22:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kella G 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you suggested she is easily somewhat fats yet that doesn't paint an excellent image. you have suggested her top and weight. Is she overweight? See some men have an unreasonable concept of what a woman could look like. they think of that something over a length 4 is fats. there's a distinction between being slightly overweight to being overweight. Is she over 3 hundred hundred pounds. if so then her wellbeing is in risk and that i heard no longer something from you that suggested you have been in touch for her via any skill. that's why such lots of solutions listed below are unfavorable in the direction of you. If she is overweight i'm particular she does not like it. She desires help and additionally you could attempt to help her. Have her see a doctor or a nutritionist and get help that way. each and every physique modifications via the years even with the incontrovertible fact that that's no reason to throw interior the towel. do no longer supply up on her and don't cheat. You fell in love together with her, no longer in basic terms that she became skinny superb?
2016-12-20 05:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be offended regardless of who said it. Perhaps there was a greater context to the woman's comment that you didn't hear.... Something that represented a joke of some sort?
2007-04-03 22:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jebbie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hope you've learned your lesson...no matter how honest you think you can be a woman friend, never comment on her weight!
Lesson 1: Keep your opinions about her weight or doughnut scoffing habits to yourself. You'll never go wrong!
2007-04-03 22:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by Nothing's Forever 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Probably because they are looking for a man and feel hurt when they get a guy's opinion....like rejection in a way...
2007-04-03 22:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She made the statement not you. There's the difference
2007-04-03 22:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
can't u see it?
she and her girlfriend are close friends so they dun Mind the tease
2007-04-03 22:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋