i have just had a knee operation and i have a frame on my leg that doesnt look nice at all. the thing is that my boyfriend dosent seem as into me for sex. i will have this frame on for 3 months. do you think it is because he doesnt find me sexy any more or is it because he is scared of hurting me? plz help!
2007-04-03 22:39:27 · 14 answers · asked by tinkerbell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's probably scared of hurting you and not sure how to work around it if you know what I mean!
Tell him your still up for it and what positions you'll manage then leave it to him.
If he loves you he'd find you sexy no matter what!
2007-04-03 22:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he is probably worried that he might hurt you or make things awkward for you. Are you still giving out signals that you are still up for it he may think that your not interested with a metal frame round your leg. You should be talking to him and tell him how you feel when faced with a new situation some men don't know what to do so just ignore it it takes the woman to start talking I'm afraid. So when he gets home ask him and hope you end up having lots of fun after. Good luck with the leg hope your ok
2007-04-04 05:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by phillippa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think more than likely he is affraid of hurting you,and would he horrified if he did.
I had a friend who's leg was in a frame and to outsiders it does look painful in itself.
Give him a few strong hints and if that does'nt work just go for it,he'll soon rise to the occasion.
But don't think for one minute your not sexy,he just cares for you and feels that trying things on with you may cause you pain.
GOOD LUCK.
2007-04-06 15:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by Tony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that he's ready to trade you in on a newer model all because you have some brace for 3 months.
Did it ever occur to you that maybe he's afraid of hurting your newly reconstructed leg?
Share some of those pain pills with him and forget the hole thing ever happened. Forget... Forget... Forget...
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2007-04-04 05:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of the above. His moods may not have direct co-relationship with your 'sexiness'. Just stop bothering. Look pleasant. If you try hard at it in attracting physically your boyfriend, you will become repulsive.
2007-04-04 05:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by Brahma V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its because he thinks it'll be kinda awkward having sex with a big metal frame on you leg!!
I dont think its got anything to do with him not finding you sexy anymore tho
2007-04-04 05:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You worry too much. He's just scared of hurting you!
2007-04-04 05:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by beetee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is hell of scared that if he tries to poke you now maybe he will land up having a physically challenged wife for entore life;)
2007-04-04 05:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by kaddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really I think you should relax. It will work out for the best either way.
2007-04-04 05:44:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More likely to be that he is frightnened to go near u incase he hurts u!!!!!
Plus it will be really awkward for him.!
2007-04-04 05:43:27 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋