2007-04-03 22:07:38 · 33 answers · asked by sonu s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can back off; he's married.
2007-04-03 22:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in the place of his wife and then think. see the motives of that married man, if he is also in love with you, then what is the guarantee that he will not fall in love again with someone else, that too when you marry him? If he can leave his wife for you, he may leave you for another girl.
You are infatuated, may be, because marriage and love, with different person,both can not go together, its impossible.
You should put your energy in some better work, instead of destroying each others mental peace try to concentrate on something else, utilize this time where you can be benefitted.
If at all you win, you will never get mental peace, because you will always be suspicious for this man of yours.
2007-04-03 22:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by manjira 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he/she love you?
Is he/she willing to give up his/her marriage for you?
If the answer to any of the above question is no, then stop thinking of this fellow and move on. He/She is not the one for you.
If the answer to both of the above question is yes, then you should ask yourself why. Does he/she not value his/her voes he/she took when he/she got married? Or he/she really loves you? Are you willing to take the risk that he/she might leave you when a more suitable person comes along?
If you truly believe that you are meant to be, I wish you luck. If you have the slightest doubt, rethink your decision, because it does involve an innocent party you will hurt.
It might take a life time to meet your other half, but believe me, ultimately it is worth it.
2007-04-03 22:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by genn_silver 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do is pray..ask God to help you overcome your feelings. Bear in your mind that what you have for him/her is a sin, though for you the feeling is right but that's not enough, you should not tolerate your feelings it should be stop, it's leading to nowhere. Sooner or later you will find your self alone and in a losing phase. You're the only one who can help yourself, do the right thing, its nice to live a peaceful life and you can only have peace if you choose the right path. Believe me, I've been there once and I'm happy that I've made the right decision hope you can do it too before its too late. Goodluck & God Bless.
2007-04-03 23:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by janet t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sister u know hes already marrried .please if he does not know about your feelings its good.think about it .will u ever be happy by ruining someone elses life?you are going onto a path that will destroy so many lifes.and whats the garuntee that this man will not leave you for someone else.sister its important to think about these things.moreover in this way u may also hurt your family and your loved ones.just backoff .thats the best way out.u will surely find someone who is only made for u. u dont need to select a man who is already commited to someone else.bye sister .take care.
2007-04-04 09:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget it! Y should u break their marriage 4 ur feelings??
she/ he is allready married so better find someone else.N let them stay as a happily married couple.
2007-04-03 23:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in love with the person who is already married, it's good !
my friend, be calm, sometimes we will find the attraction also love, so checkout whether you realy love, if yes then loves also want sacrifice, becoz I dont say to love is crime, but I say love is blind. if you have done it dont create problem between the married life, if you want to bloom your love then make them happy by quiting yourself.
2007-04-03 23:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by sunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'll skip out on the moral objections here and just stick with the question at hand......if they feel the same way as you then talk about it if they want to divorce their spouse then you go from there if not i wouldn't purse it for not only the legal issues you may cause them but the fact their spouse might beat you to a bloody pulp
2007-04-03 22:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by oblivious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love you are infatuated you enjoy the contest for their affections but believe me you won't like it if they leave their spouse for you.
After all he who cheats on her will cheat on you. For them it is a game that they play for a lifetime. You will cause your self great pain if you keep playing in other people's lives.
2007-04-04 18:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they have made a comittment to another (especially if they have children) it is best for you to leave that person alone. If that person leaves the relationship for you, and things aren't what they expected, they will never forgive you.
2007-04-03 22:12:14 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋