If you have read my last question you would know that my boyfreind has passed on. But i have found out iam pregnent with his baby. I dont wont to be a single mum.
2007-04-03 22:50:27 · 15 answers · asked by no_ugly_boys 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Iam awere my life is unbeliveble and i hope for god sake these sh itty things stop happening to me.
2007-04-03 22:57:36 · update #1
If you really loved this boy have his baby..maybe his parents could bring it up if you dont want to....It's something only you can decide on.
2007-04-09 08:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Have just read you last questions and i am so sorry to hear of your loss. It is going to be a tough time for you do you know any of his family maybe talk to them. I know ultimately its your decision but as your boyfriend is no long here you would be continuing his life through his child. Maybe that's what you are frightened of. There is lots of help out there if the only worry is about being a single mum but its the emotional baggage that I think is more of an issue. Remember what ever you decide this is something that you are going to have to live with for the rest of your life so take time to really think about what you are doing. Maybe go to your GP and see if you can talk to a counsellor to help you through this. I wish you the best of luck in whatever you choose to do
2007-04-03 23:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by phillippa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you for real? I am having a hard time believing your stories...! What's wrong with being a single mum?? I am one pretty good one ...and a mother of four and it never worried me once!
If indeed your BF passed on, take your time now to think about the baby and the best way to bring him/her up. Along the way, if you find someone you like, go out with him but this is not the time to be thinking of someone new...surely!!
2007-04-11 02:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by Cleopatra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie hold on to God and have the child for that child is a precious gift from above and God picked you to give it life's lessons. In most matters you have to think and have mind over matter more than anything to get you through tough times. I don't know what it is like to be in your situation I would love to express my feelings by trying to encourage you and hopefully give you a little motivation and be the best mother your child can have and love it unconditionally. I praise God for all the blessings that are brought my way so why not celebrate the life that you are carrying on and the child's father as well. God Bless you and I hope that you make the best decision for you and that child!!!
2007-04-03 22:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by kimthornton1231 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need time to grieve the loss of your man, jumping into another relationship will not solve your problem, and you will end up hurting any guy who happens to be with you, wait until you fall in love with someone else, it will happen, but not because you are looking, get to know your baby first, and make that bond stronger, once you have found that happiness then im sure the rest will follow. good luck xxx
2007-04-11 18:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by JOJO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never anwered you last question but due to my own experiences i have a slight understanding of how you feel!
losing a loved one is hard enough, but to find you are carrying their bab is is a dilemma to say the least,
you must do whats right for you. the "Baby" is unaware of anything and knows nothing of the world.
the baby is gonna serve as a constant reminder of you bloke, you need to work out if this will have a posative or negative impact on your life.
if you think it will be negative, you needto discuss you options with both your familys, if you decide you dont want it, they may, as its his, and may be prepared to bring it up!
please dont rush ant decision though - you need to be sure that what you are doing is right for everyone.
2007-04-10 04:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by kelly f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with being a single mother? You and this man created a baby and now it is your job, since he is gone, to take care of gods creation.
2007-04-11 18:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by triciapiedra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might not be a single mum forever if you find another man that will love you and your child and someone who will understand that you brought this child into the world to keep the memory alive of your boyfriend. The man you find will not replace your boyfriend or replace him as a dad to your child but he will love you both and accept your decision good luck keep us posted :-)
2007-04-03 22:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by bobbobbob 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh my gosh i feel so sorry for u
well don't get married just for a baby it will make thing worse
you could find a room meight so they can stay with take care of the babby and not make you feel lony.
2007-04-09 13:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have been through a lot. 10 months ago your husband was having an affair.
2 months ago your boyfriend was a virgin.
Now he has been killed by a bus and your pregnant with his baby.
I just can't believe how unlucky you are.
2007-04-03 23:00:57 · answer #10 · answered by justpatagn 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋