actually he is my best friend that i ever had...he always support me..n always be there for me when i need him..he can be my confeter that will confet me...but in the same time i care about him so what need i do???
2007-04-03 22:41:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont go there!!! it will NOT work if you have a sexual relation ship with your best Friend that is how i lost mine we thort it would be ok and if it didnt work we could still be Friends but it didnt work and now we dont even speak or see each other any more i have lost my best friend.......
2007-04-03 22:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by mummyzgall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong for you to fall for your best friend. It happens a lot, when someone is there for you all the time it's hard to not have feelings for them. If you want to tell him about it then you should first think of the pros and cons of the situation. Like Pro: i know that he will always be there for me..Con: If he doesn't feel the same way it could make our friendship awkward. If you do decide to tell him then you should just sit down and talk about it in an adult way. Because you will never know how he feels if you don't say something so go for it. GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2007-04-03 22:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by D.Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to find out whether he feels the same way about you. Sometimes its something one sided. I get where you're coming from, because good friendships especially with members of the opposite sex, often lead to stronger feelings. You just have to think very hard about getting into a relationship with him though because there are pluses and minuses. On the plus side, he's your best friend, so he understands you better than anyone else. They also say that friendship makes the strongest foundation for a relationship. You already get on very well and already know each other well, so that takes away the most awkward part of starting to date someone. But on the minus side, if things don't end up working out, you haven't only lost yourself a boyfriend, but at the same time a best friend, and thats the person you would normally go to when something bad happens. Also, even by telling him your friendship could be shaky for awhile if he doesn't feel the same way. But if he's a good friend, then that won't last too long.
If it was me in the same situation, I would tell him how I feel because I believe its better to tell someone how you feel about them and know for sure that you did your best than to sit around for years wondering if you made a big mistake. In the case of a friend, you are going to be seeing him alot, so if you don't tell him, then you are just going to be awkward around him for even longer than you would be if you did tell him and he ended up not feeling the same way. I would take the risk and tell him, and if he did feel the same way, start a relationship, but if things start getting rocky, I would try and end it on good terms before you both hurt each other. Hope my advice helped!
2007-04-03 22:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by laislinns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been thru your situation before. falling in love w/ your bestfriend. . . its pretty difficult to handle and do make a certain decision on what move you must take. . .
in case you find that you are really for sure falling in love with your bestfriend, try to take the pros and cons if you will decide on telling her what you really feel,
first, try to observe if she also feels for you the same as you do,
second, try to weigh things, if it is better for you to stay as bestfriends? or go beyond the line of friendship thing?,
If you really feel that you do really love your bestfriend and want to spend the rest of your time with her, better take the risk of telling her, it is worth trying . . . we only live once on this earth, our time is limited, we may not know when God will take back the gift of life He has given to us, so make the most of your time, maybe tomorrow or on any other day, you may not be able to tell her what you feel and blame yourself of not taking your chances. . .
2007-04-04 02:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by bucezz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong in having a crush on your best guy friend.. because you know him and he is close 2 u, use should make a GREAT couple...
Take your chance and ask him out ....
2007-04-03 22:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk about it, in a very matured way, with open heart.
Do remember, words are one way - once they come out of your mouth and enter his ears, you can never take them back.
So, make sure you're comfort level is acceptable and you can talk about things easily. Be casual but sincere about it.
And wait, I am not expert is dating best friends, so take my words with a boat load of salt.
2007-04-03 22:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that., when we admire somebody and then we fall in love after that, that's normal..
2007-04-03 22:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need let him know your feelings and see what happens.
2007-04-03 22:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not FALL in love. RISE in love.
2007-04-03 22:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by Brahma V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋