I like this guy and I fell for him (he knows this)...I haven't seen him in about 5 years but we can't communicate often because he is in the army (he is not in the US...he is not an American we are both in Asia now) He is really nice guy and he aways tell me he could never be angry at me...I gave him some BS because I got confused with him and another guy so I gave him a PSP...he doesn't earn a lot in the army over here...its different than the US...anyway he didn't ask for it I just gave it to him. But my friend's BF told me he didn't think the guy was good and I should forget him...I was devastated by this and told the guy I wanted to go back to the US because I was so hurt..its not that I believe the BF but it shattered all my hope with the guy and I felt so hurt...that the BF felt this way and told me. I told the guy on IM what the BF said but he won't answer me to say goodbye..I told him it wasn't that I believe the BF but I was so hurt by what he said that I had to leave..
2007-04-03 23:56:58 · 6 answers · asked by iaskmyselfhowmuchdou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems either he only wants friendship from you or he is not ready for a relationship. Let it go and find someone who will return your feelings. If he wanted to communicate he could have written you letters, he could be playing games with you and he is not worth being hurt over. Do what is right for you
2007-04-04 00:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you wanted to manage the ball on your end under all circumstances and thus made things bitter and bitter at your end...
You shouldn't have acted on somebodies references without using ur own conscience, which was what really required...
Now it's high time check on the details about ur BF and then act accordingly
2007-04-04 07:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by Utkz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your own decisions. Don't let someone else influence you and then blame them if you took their advise. Either you love the guy or you don't. Either you will take what you have with him or you move on. This is easy its about you!! You need to decide what you want and then decide if he is giving it to you. If he's not then walk away, but if you are ok with things then stay and live happily ever after.
2007-04-04 07:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay maybe your best friend is jeaulous and wanted you to break up because he or she can't find one. You should get back to the guy in the army and talk it over in person would be best. If you can't then e-mail or letters then. It's best to talk in person on this problem. I hope you and him can get together again.
2007-04-04 07:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would listen --- my lady is the world to me and i will do all i can to resolve any problems and the last thing i would do is listen or believe or act on anything bad said about her --- i know this for a fact as lies were told to me and i did not believe them and only love my lady more
2007-04-04 07:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
excuse me, sorry.. i wasn't listening...
2007-04-04 06:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋