It depends mostly on the attitude that you have about crossdressing. If you have taken the necessary time to properly educate yourself about what crossdressing is (as well as what it ISN'T), and recognize that 90% of all crossdressers are totally heterosexual, then yes, a crossdresser can make a better partner than a 'plain vanilla' male. Why? Because they are more appreciative of women and femininity than non crossdressers and they have the ability to express and discuss their innermost feelings with their partner. If you have a positive attitude about it and can convey that attitude to your partner, you'll probably discover that your relationship will be closer than any you ever experienced before. The KEY to understanding each other is totally open and honest communication.
2007-04-07 05:40:32
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answered by senorita_cd 5
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Forelorn is totally correct -- a lot of men and women are mistaken, because they are largely uneducated about crossdresers. They base their statements on what their friends, wives/husbands and biased political groups and mostly their own inner fears. That's what drives them to say hateful things that don't do anything but spurn others to do the same. Then of course they go to church and profess they are children of God...
You have to LOVE the person you're with irregardless of what they are wearing. A crossdresser can NOT change -- please don't try to change him, it's not going to happen -- it's in "her" DNA to be the way she is. It doesn't her less of a man and it doesn't make her biological girlfriend any less of a woman nor does it make her a lesbian. So get over it !!!
I've had long, long, long relationships with women as a private crossdresser and I can tell you the research others have done is true -- if you care to investigate, because it's all over the internet -- crossdressers are more understanding of women's feelings and their rights, they are more attuned to how they think and what they want, and they understand very deeply inside what pleases a woman.
Crossdressers are also -- and this is a fact, not a subjective statement -- better husbands than regular males. They teach their kids to be open minded, they're almost always smarter males, they're more engaged psychologically and physiologically with whoever they're with and they're typically more caring parents overall than nearly all of the males around them when their biological female lover is engaged in their lifestyle. These are facts, not something we gurls make up. Look it up and get used to it, because irregardless of whatever hate comes our way, we are here to stay...
The world is changing and we are changing with it...
2014-08-24 10:26:11
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answered by Anonymous
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mmmmm I doubt it!!!! I suppose the only thing you could say is that a cross dresser is more effeminate. So you would think he would be more in tune with the female psyche!!!!....But then I'd be worried that the next step would be that he turns totally gay....Which would leave you out in the cold.....
2007-04-07 06:49:06
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answered by Anonymous
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Partners for what?
2007-04-07 06:29:55
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answered by QueenBean 5
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Only if they come in YOUR size and buy their own gear!
2007-04-07 06:31:35
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answered by renclrk 7
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Yes if you're entering some gay pride march.
2007-04-07 06:32:31
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answered by Anonymous
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people are people... relationships don't depend that much on preferences to dressing - unless you are shallow...
love the person, not the fetish!!! :D
2007-04-07 06:30:50
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answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6
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I don't know, I've never dated one and don't care to.
2007-04-07 06:34:30
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answered by ? 5
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Hell no...they had brain issues...don't walk away, run away!
2007-04-07 06:30:52
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answered by Anonymous
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