Family & Relationships - 6 April 2007

Ok well in August my mom moved us from Indiana to Florida. I absolutly hate it here. and i hate my life. Im on anti-deprssants but i still cut. I know how bad my mom feels for moving us here. And every time i tell her i hate it here she gets all sad. and i know she goes and cries. I have been cutting for 6 months. But im afraid to tell my mom. Any good advice?

2007-04-06 09:18:44 · 17 answers · asked by Emily R 1 in Family

I've been married for 2yrs. When my husband & I dated, he was only single for a few mos. from a 4yr relationship that ended amicably. While we were dating, there were always things in the house that belonged to the ex (reminding me of her), from a framed picture, pics, furniture, tools, so I kept my mouth shut & ignored them but when we become serious, I became very upset that he was still holding on to the stuff so he asked her to go pick them up. Also, I was bothered he wasn't very forthcoming about the ex. He only admitted that instead of 1.5years, he was with the ex 4yrs, after we got married. He was also only about 6mos broke up with her when he met me, instead of 9-10 that he initially claimed. Recently, he admitted that they lived together in another house and our existing house was something that was under BOTH of their names but he bought her share out. These are some facts that he covered but he finally told truth since I was always suspicious since he'd tweak the story a bit

2007-04-06 09:15:09 · 40 answers · asked by phoenix_rising_28 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I ahve been in an emotionally, physically, & sometimes even sexually abusive relationship for the past 18 month. I have stayed because unlike him, I can see past his behavior & know that his flawed actions are a result of the life he has lived. No I am not making excuses, I made an honest effort to uinderstand that what has happened to me was not my fault & that I am not responsible. I made an honest attempt to Understand everybody & this relationship & have come to the conclusion that it is best for me to leave. My decision is firm but I am full of doubt about it because I am not for certain that he will be like this forever...I love him, I care about him (yes I do) but I want him to become a better person in rder for me to be with him. So my question is can a man that seems to lack emotion, compassion, considerance, a man that is abusive, can they change? & never Ever do it again? Or are they who they are now at 22 for the rest of their lives?

2007-04-06 09:14:42 · 30 answers · asked by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom and I have been like best friends, so close and happy that I find it hard to believe that she is no more. I had left overseas though she didn't want me to and she had been a heart patient since three years but all I wanted in life was to give her everything in life that she desired and live forever with me than suffer. She had a lot of financial hardships and trauma and I worked as much as I coudl to relieve that pain. I flew down immediately to be with her for her surgery and we thought she would live for many years more after her pacemaker installation, so this came as a huge shock to me to see her suddenly shake like a leaf, nothing said and die in split seconds (less than a minute) whilst watching tele. How could this happen and why? My anger, sadness, loss and emptiness is making me go crazy and my dad though strong is breaking up too, what do i do cos I want her back with me and I feel have not had my chance to give her more and make her happier. Please help??

2007-04-06 09:13:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she's turning 18 and wants an older man to spend it with. There's a few others things she wants bedroom wise but I have tried to speak with about boys her own age. She won't hear of it, she wants this fat middleaged old man. I can't explain it.

2007-04-06 09:11:45 · 13 answers · asked by wantingtobedead 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is a full time student at a vocational school and still lives at home but is working part time. Can I ask her to help pay for utilities or do I still need to support her?

2007-04-06 09:09:29 · 18 answers · asked by lilia2188@sbcglobal.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm for ready to pack it in,I always said how could anyone quit so easy but who wants to be held back on all levels,.......I'm really scared for the first time{please guys and gals don't be jerks}------I got no family and really don't have many options or people to turn to...???

2007-04-06 09:07:24 · 22 answers · asked by Smith & Jones 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was talking to my g/f and we were at a low point in the relationship. I seem to have trust issues. Any way, I have to agreed to trust her fully. I sort of told her that she seems to be a kind of girl I would marry. Was that a good call to make saying that down the line I wouldn't mind getting married?

2007-04-06 09:05:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this boy at my school that I really like but i don't know how to tell him that i like him. I have a fear that if i ask him he's going to say no. I really like him and i think that if i don't hurry up and tell him some other girl will get him. I just really need to know how to ask him if he likes me

2007-04-06 09:04:06 · 11 answers · asked by 2009 Princess 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just found out that I am pregnant. My husband was so upset because he doesn't want any kid. He never has one. He is 50 years old. My husband doesn't work. He collects money from his rental properties but not enough to pay for the household expense so I am working in financial field making only 60K/y. Basically he doesn't kick me out of the house right now because I help him pay half of mortgage and half of all household expense but I can feel that he doesn't love me any more. He tries to act responsible on things that needs to be done around the house but he never talks nice to me. He talks to me like I am his enemy. I don't have anybody else. I have nowhere to go. What should I do? By myself I probably can afford to rent a small place but it's gonna be much smaller than our house right now. Every penny that I make, I may have to spend on the babysist. Would I be fair to my child if there is no father? Should I get divorced?...Desperate pregnant woman

2007-04-06 09:03:18 · 14 answers · asked by Tisa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's been about a three weeks since I started in my new school. No, it's not a different school in town, it's in a different state! Here's my small situation: I've made a few friends, but whenever I talk about something to them, I feel like they're completely ignoring me! Sometimes I cry at night wondering if it's just me. I know I kinda got emotional there, but it's true. I need some serious advice and I hope you can give the best. It would be even better if you had experience with this yourself.

2007-04-06 09:02:09 · 9 answers · asked by Natalie 2 in Friends

Since last Thanksgiving, my holidays havent been good at all.Whether work,or life issues getting in the way.I kind of expect Easter tobe the same...How can I break this Cycle and give aswell as be loved during this holiday?

2007-04-06 09:00:41 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It doesn't matter if you told the lie for good reasons or bad, just what was the lie? Did they ever figure out you were lying?

2007-04-06 08:59:09 · 11 answers · asked by hapigrl85 4 in Singles & Dating

Im a bridemaid and I want my hair esp color to look good. When should I get it done? I was thinking like 2 or 3 weeks before the date?

2007-04-06 08:58:36 · 16 answers · asked by subra55118 3 in Weddings

me and this girl broke up three years ago and she calls the house to talk to my sister and she mostly asks about me and she stays the night at our house and i still have feelings for her but i am going to be going to college this year and i am wanting to tell her about my feelings for her before i leave and i was wantig to know if i should tell her my feelings or not and if i should tell her in person or leave her a letter

2007-04-06 08:58:36 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I'm not the only one who gets it hard dealing with in-laws. Still attempting to "detatch" etc. Anyone got a similar tale to tell?

2007-04-06 08:57:28 · 21 answers · asked by kirrii 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm bored out of my mind and I'm not aloud to go see my friends or have my friends come over to see me what should I do for fun (I'm gonna be grounded for the next 8 weeks)

2007-04-06 08:55:43 · 13 answers · asked by ~Again~ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Who here grewup without a father because he decided he didn't want to take care of his family

2007-04-06 08:55:31 · 8 answers · asked by Inahzi13 5 in Family

ok let me just base some facts first, im 15 yrs old. this dream consists of three people (me, my boyfriend, call him "R", a friend of mine who is a boy and also a friend of R and i had a crush on him, lets call him "P". Now i used to date R last summer but we broke up, then he dated another girl who got him into partying and drinking alot, now hes got a totally different (in a bad way) look, like different hair, different style and ofcourse different face due to all the drinking and partying, anyway were dating again now. and last year P had an overdose and almost died and was sent to the hospital and they pumped his stomach. so heres my dream:

in the begining theres like this flash of the old R and the new R and theyre kissing!!
then everything goes black then i'm in an apartment in new york city, and im in bed and on my right there's R and on my left theres P but hes wearing one of these paper gowns they make u wear in the hospital, but P and R cant see each other...
any help?

2007-04-06 08:54:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im pretty bored.What do i do 2 occupy my time By the way im not aloud online or the fone and no one can come over

2007-04-06 08:54:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I started dating this guy a few months ago. We broke up because we rushed into it way to fast and both stopped feeling it. I stopped feeling it due to fear he said he just stopped feeling it. He has also made comments that he doesnt want to have to worry about what a gf is up too. He has trust issues. We agreed to stay friends because we have lots of fun together. At first we just talked on the phone, then we started hanging out, which turned into hanging out everyday to now he is with me except when im working. Like when we were dating. Im having a hard time understanding if he is not interested in a relationship why we are having one basically. I have feelings for him. I have had more fun in the last month than in the last five years. Do you think there is any hope for this turning into a real relationship or am I wasting my time wishing for nothing?

2007-04-06 08:52:19 · 13 answers · asked by wikedbutterfly69 1 in Singles & Dating

yup am in middle school, typical boy problems but am stuck, i dont know what to do!!

so there's this guy and "liked" me b4 after a week he gave up on me and went out with my best friend >he new i liked him<. now he comes back to me and we went out to the movies me him and other friends. he kept on flirting with me ppl told us that we should go out. ok.... i get home and were still talkin by text messaging. its been like that for a week. in school he would talk 2 me, he would run with my stuff, so i would run after him and like wrestle for it. he told me he likes me but am not sure what i feel about him. i get sad when we dont talk. i get butterflies in my tummy when we do talk.... but i dont know if i like him!!! he thinks am awsome and i think so too. but hes a player and he flirts with a mad amount of girls i dont know if hes just messing with me or hes being foreal. is it one of his charms that he plays with girls??

Help please!!!!!

2007-04-06 08:51:20 · 13 answers · asked by heyhey* 2 in Singles & Dating

boys and men answa only

2007-04-06 08:49:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sex
harder
pee
eat
buying
cleaning
listen
buying
having a drink

2007-04-06 08:44:23 · 15 answers · asked by sexy princess lisa 4 in Singles & Dating

She thinks she can't get divorce bacause she says that the dude she's with is not a citizen and that the papers are in process. Is that true. If paper are in process of getting this guy legal can she not divorce him in till thats over or can she leave him anytime she wants?

2007-04-06 08:44:07 · 12 answers · asked by slain 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-06 08:43:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay, my husband left me last year and he said that he wasn't in love with me anymore. He came back a month later and we got back together, well now that we have been having problems for a about a month or 2, he left me again saying that he has nothing left for me and that he wants to be single. I also found his personal profile online stating that he single. He said bcuz I haven't given the separation time, that he wants to be single. Everyone is saying that he is stupid bcuz he is leaving a good woman. He calls and he wants us to be civil and friends, and he asks if i thought about him and i tell him yeah, then he says that he thinks about me too. Then one minute were better off friends, then other minute were separated but were not talking about divorce. He says maybe down the road we can get back together, then its whatever decision we make, it wil be for the best. How can I not let him run my life, someone said that the question is what r u going to do when he comes back to u?

2007-04-06 08:42:18 · 20 answers · asked by MovingOnWithMyLife..Your Loss! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He gets upset if he goes to bed and I continue on yahoo, but in the past, when he was watching tv and I went to bed, he didn't mind.

What do you think this is??

2007-04-06 08:41:25 · 14 answers · asked by MARIA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife early in the marriage abused me psychologically by making me feel worthless (like anything I did was never good enough for her), acused me several times of having an affair even though I never had the time or reason to, and pushed me away sexually. She eventually brought another woman into our bedroom, even though I was mostly allowed to watch & not participate.

I asked in the past if my wife was the one having an affair and most of the answers came back as "yes she was" in an e-mail and few postings.

So my questions would be:
1) Would you get a divorce or have an affair and just stay married?
2) Would you allow your spouce to be in an "open marriage"?
3) Would you ever bring in a 3rd party or go to an adult club?

2007-04-06 08:41:14 · 15 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a girl that goes to my school and I like her but she hasnt seemed to show much of an interest in me at all. But I used to have a class with her. And now I have almost all of them. and I see her name everywhere like Madison St. Whitesalmon, WA. you know? What do I do? I reall want to talk to her but I dont know if she knows if I even exist.

2007-04-06 08:41:06 · 13 answers · asked by robertson_c92 2 in Singles & Dating