Family & Relationships - 6 April 2007

This is just for those in Lawton Oklahoma:
Does anyone know a Dominic D. Walker (Native American) around 34-35yrs old. This is my father and I am trying to locate him.
stephenerics@yahoo.com

2007-04-06 08:39:46 · 3 answers · asked by mammapoobear 1 in Family

I discovered recently that my dad is having an affair. My mum knows, and she didn't tell me or my sister; although my sister made jokes about it because my dad would spend hours with his phone and became very protective of it - and I shouted at her, saying he wasn't that kind of person. My sister still doesn't know, but me and my mum talk about it; she is only slightly irritated, but not angry. Whenever she confronts him subtly (maybe hinting at liking somebody too much) he goes nuts...but only verbally. I am not afraid of him physically hurting my mum because I know he wouldn't go that far.

Unfortunately we were on holiday and my dad took the dog for a walk. He left his phone on charge and I browsed through it, seeing very deep messages between him and this woman. I was more disgusted at his replies.

My mum only works as a reception teacher, and she couldn't afford (money-wise) to live without him. I am distraught, not knowing what to do. Can anyone please suggest anything?

2007-04-06 08:38:37 · 37 answers · asked by Monkfish Bandana 2 in Family

Be exciteing!

2007-04-06 08:35:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what if i dont want to?????

2007-04-06 08:32:24 · 11 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Singles & Dating

my fiance and i have been going out for two years, i love him sooo much. He's perfect, sweet, kind, loving understanding and a genius in Columbia medical school currently doing residence at 24. He is goreuous 6'9, broad sholders, tan, black hair, blue eyes, in amazing shape. One problem he is a virgin, by choice philosophical/religous reasons.I lied to him and said i was. He is Catholic, doesn't act holier than thou and very understanding. A friend of mine dated him for a while she told him that she wasn't a virgin from the start, they were together for awhile, she said he was wonderful, understanding and always a gentlemen she said he said it happens, id be lying if i said i didnt wish you were, but love you and thats what matters, she wants him back and she knows i lied. Anyway, we were dating for two months and he told me I though he was kidding and said i was. its true friends told me, and i lied more i was scared. I love him so much. this week made me feel awful

2007-04-06 08:31:59 · 14 answers · asked by blondebabe24x 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Your fav. position, or things that just drive you wild!

2007-04-06 08:31:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The verbal abuse is only when we are arguing, We can't have a agruement without I being called all kinds of dirty names. I am a very conservative and faithful young woman and never have been called names like this before in a relationship, I know he is angry at the time and other than these times he is a good guy. I try talking, he apologizes and does it again. He says he's trying.

2007-04-06 08:25:48 · 11 answers · asked by Kim 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do men really enjoys TFing? I mean really!

2007-04-06 08:17:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-06 08:11:18 · 9 answers · asked by love u !!! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do i have to have an engagement ring? i have a firnd who is going to give me one but i really dont want to use hers.. so do i really have to have one?

2007-04-06 08:10:33 · 11 answers · asked by bubbles_bubbles_2003 4 in Weddings

His friend who i also known since high school, stole his girl who had his kid, and my friend is going crazy. He feels like battling the natures, which could be dangerous, i keep telling him to think about his daughter and that he needs to be here for her. How do i comfort him in this time of need???

2007-04-06 08:09:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A few months ago my husband said he had a job offer, but it was in a very tiny conservative town, so I was not thrilled. He convinced me to give it a visit and we both thought the job offer sounded positive. Then the pay rate changed and we had trouble finding livable housing in our price range. I asked him to back out because what they were offering after looking at the housing prices and the schools, etc. things weren't looking too promising. I didn't feel good about backing out, but I thought it would be better than making a bad move. Too make a long story short he told me he would drag me there kicking and screaming and that I would like it there.
Now we are here, and I have had to deal with rats, termites and undrinkable water in a house I was wishy washy about but he fell in love with. I have really tried hard to get problems taken care of, exterminators out, etc. I've had to give up some of my old activities for this move. Am I justified in being angry at my hubby?

2007-04-06 08:06:52 · 13 answers · asked by l m 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am currently trying to plan my wedding and we both really liked Silver for the color of the wedding but a lot of people are telling me that Silver is used for 25th Anniversaries only and that I should choose another color. I thought about using Champagne but I cannot get Silver out of my mind. Please give me your opinions. Thanks!

2007-04-06 08:05:11 · 40 answers · asked by angie v 1 in Weddings

2007-04-06 08:03:28 · 19 answers · asked by you_don't_say 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I think I'm in love with my best friend! We do everything together, like the same books and moves, and laugh all the time when we're together. We even used to compare stories of our respective relationships, and it just so happened that we're both single right now. I'm not sure when it hit me that I'm really really attracted to her. Now that I'm aware of my attraction though, I feel really self-conscious around her now. I catch myself staring at her, and every once in a while, she gives me this funny look and says "are you OK?" I'm not sure how she feels about me. I mean, she says stuff like, "you're the greatest" and "anybody would be so lucky to be with you" and even

"I love you" though I think she means it more in a friendly way. I'm scared to make a move. The most important thing is that I don't lose her as a friend, but sometimes

I'd think about what an amazing couple we'd make though if we were to become more than friends. I'm paralyzed about what to do with my f

2007-04-06 08:03:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's my 23rd Wedding Anniversary tomorrow, I think my husband has forgotten. I've been looking for an excuse to tell him I don't love him anymore and think this could be the perfect opportunity. How should I go about telling him?

2007-04-06 08:00:54 · 43 answers · asked by shady lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In some states a married woman who divorces is entitled to 1/2 a mans assets and sometimes alimony when divorced even tho she came into the marriage earning 1/2 as much as the man and had no savings. I can understand this if kids are involved or if it was a long marriage but why should a man who has educated himself and worked hard at his chosen profession so he could earn more have to split his assets with a woman who has contributed far less to the finances of the marriage? Understandably if there are children involved or its a long standing marriage the assets should be split but i can see no reason why a man should have to give up half of everything he has saved and earned over his lifetime to a woman he may only have been married to for a short time.

2007-04-06 08:00:50 · 13 answers · asked by wolfman 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i love two ppl...one has a gf...and one had me...help!!!

2007-04-06 08:00:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been living together since November and he has probably washed the dishes 3 times. We have two sons who require most of my attention when I am at home, one is 2 yrs and one is 6 months, I work and go to school full time. When I am home I have to feed the kids shower them and myself, feed the little one a lot because I breastfeed, and clean and cook for us, and in between all that I still have to find time to do my homework to keep my grades up. How can I make him understand that it is not easy for me to do all of this alone, he cant even watch both of the kids while I shower! What can I do? When I am not home he just watches tv or is on the computer, meanwhile the house is a mess. Do you think this is right of him? His mom and sister are housewives so he wants me to do that as well but with his income we will not make it with me at home. Please give me some good advice....

2007-04-06 07:53:57 · 10 answers · asked by Momof2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-06 07:52:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guys i was dating for 4 mouth well in July of last year my ex boyfriend at the time come to my home down and fight with me and my so call boyfriend at the time didn't even borther help me so i was fight with my ex and got my noice broken and i found out he was drink a beer with my ex and my ex ask him if him and me were dating and he tell them no what that shouble mean and what kind of boyfreind will due that?

2007-04-06 07:51:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know just talking about fantasies is good for a relationship, but should you act? What if it involved another person? Is it okay if it is just the couple involved? Would talking about the fantasy help a relationship, or could it hurt it? So many questions...I look forward to your answers.

2007-04-06 07:50:26 · 13 answers · asked by redsox75_1984ws 1 in Singles & Dating

I know just talking about fantasies is good for a relationship, but should you act? What if it involved another person? Is it okay if it is just the couple involved? Wouls talking about the fantasy help a relationship, or could it hurt it? So many questions>>>I look forward to your answers.

2007-04-06 07:49:17 · 8 answers · asked by redsox75_1984ws 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why after 5 months of not talking to him at all... my ex of 3 1/2 years decides to all the sudden starts talking to me in a flirty way... tells me that how much he misses me... and then yet he tells me that he has another girlfriend on the side!!!! why are guys such jerks????

2007-04-06 07:49:05 · 18 answers · asked by wickedkiwi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

the situation is tht my bf is loyal.. n ya caring n evrythng but he does nt call me ofhen ... i.e once in 3days.. n says "its nt tht he is nt concerned or nythng... he talks 2 his parents at the same rate so does tht mean he is nt concerned 4 them...??" n im clueless... don kno wat 2 say n thnk... after cin al my frnds talk 2 their bf al day long i kinda feel bad.. but he says they r nt mature... n its my love 4 u tht matters n nt fone calls.... bt i feel if u r concerned then callin is nt the only criterion but.. atleast it shows care.... plzzzzzz help am i just unnecessarily causing trouble???

2007-04-06 07:46:56 · 7 answers · asked by bottleup14 2 in Singles & Dating

How many times a normal couple after getting married can have sex? I understand that both have to work but what is the minimun?

2007-04-06 07:46:36 · 8 answers · asked by nenena 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She told me that she wants her space, and a guy who makes her chase after them and someone that does not fall all over her.

I know how i can give her her space thats an easy one. But how do i get her to chase after me. and how do i not fall all over her.

2007-04-06 07:45:04 · 7 answers · asked by ieattheclowns 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together a few years, and I can admitt that for the first year or so I was a little posessive of him. I can say I was wrong for that, but lately a lot of evidence has popped up without me even looking for it. The most recent piece of the puzzle was a text message it went somthing like "I didnt work today, I called verizon" I didn't reconize the number it was sent to so I called it and no surprise it was a female's voice on the other end. He also has a second cell phone that I have found on 2 occasions. each time I confront him he says I'm making false accusations. what can I do?

2007-04-06 07:44:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-06 07:43:48 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well i went to this camp and i go every year, last year i met this guy and we spent the whole week together were like joined at the hip... it was a christian camp so we grew closer to God together, we even went to the end of the week banquet together, we talked so much about anything he seemed to like me so much, he was popular and so was i, he wasn't scared to put his arm aroung me or anything but he was a tad shy around me, well we left camp and before we left he kept promising to call me over and over. well lets just say that that was in june and it is april and still no call, its almost time again for camp again and he'll be their. Why didn't he call me? Should i talk to him when i go back? Im like already nervous about it! help

2007-04-06 07:42:34 · 23 answers · asked by ~Bama sweetie~ 3 in Singles & Dating