I know just talking about fantasies is good for a relationship, but should you act? What if it involved another person? Is it okay if it is just the couple involved? Would talking about the fantasy help a relationship, or could it hurt it? So many questions...I look forward to your answers.
2007-04-06 07:50:26 · 13 answers · asked by redsox75_1984ws 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on the fantasy but i would talk it over with your partner...then ask your partner what there fantasy are.....I think that it helps relationships to be able to talk about and do some of our fantasies.....good luck on your adventure.....
2007-04-06 08:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what your fantasy is. Acting on your fantasy fills you with a sense of completion trust me I know. But I would not allow my fantasy's to become a reality while in a relationship unless it is with the person I am in a relationship with. You sound young, satisfy your fantasy before you get started in a serious relationship.
2007-04-06 07:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the fantasy. A lot of my fantasies will always stay in my mind, while others will be shared. You have to look at how acting on, or even just telling about some of these fantasies will affect things in the real world. If they will add some spice or fun, share them. If they will drive a wedge between you, keep them in fantasy land.
Unless you share your fantasy, I can't give you anything more specific.
2007-04-06 07:55:02 · answer #3 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is so very short to have so many regrets. I love the commercial of the old lady on her death bed, talking to her daughter about her life, telling her she had "done it all, had it all", then she looks across to the window, and across the street in the neighbors window, the neighbor is getting into a beautiful bathtub, the old lady sighs a deep heart wrenching sigh for not "doing it ALL" and dies! If your relationship doesn't contain ALL you need, why are you in it? I don't want to die with regret on my lips! A fantasy that is only held by one will hurt the other. Find someone who wants to play the same games you do!
2007-04-06 07:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you fantasy unless it's a positive thing? Negative no! If you're in a relationship you should be able to communicate with the person and be able to talk about your feelings instead of wishing what it will be like if.
2007-04-06 07:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy answer to your question. Depends on what the fantasy is.
2007-04-06 07:53:20 · answer #6 · answered by cooldude 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my experience, fantasies are best unfulfilled, in the imagination. Cause they're never as good acted out as they are in your mind!
2007-04-06 08:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on what the fantasy is, and who you fantasize about doing it with. Many older men seem to fantasize about younger women in..odd ways and obviously shouldnt act on it. But if you fantasize about somewithing with a partner or spouse, that would seem more appropriate.(if they are up to it)
2007-04-06 07:54:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you only get this life to enjoy your fantasies ... so I say go for it (as long as you aren't harming someone ... well, without their consent)
and NO! it absolutely doesn't matter what the fantasy is ... its what you really want, its what turns you on, its whats right for you ... not ours to judge whats right and wrong
2007-04-06 07:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what the fantasy is
2007-04-06 07:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by Tori 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋