i love two ppl...one has a gf...and one had me...help!!!
2007-04-06 08:00:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If personalities and life circumstances permit....a person can spend their life with one love. peace
2007-04-06 08:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep. For some people. If you want it to be so, then it can be. If you don't, it won't. I've been with my wife for 26 years. I love her every bit as much today as I did when we were much younger. but it took a while to find her. I had a girlfriend before her that I thought was The One, and we were together for 7 years, off and on. Because we broke up and went back together a bunch of times, the relationship, though toxic, took on this feeling of "inevitability," and I thought we were destined to stay together, even though I wasn't very happy. Eventually, I met my girl, though, and the other relationship ended. We've been together ever since. I can't imagine my life without her. She tells me every day that she adores me, and I believe her. We've made a good life together, despite not having much money. We feel that enough is as good as a feast - and we have enough. Are we destined to spend our lives with just one person? Maybe we are. I think I am. I hope you are as fortunate.
2016-05-18 22:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Destine and fate are terms used to give up responsibility and control of our life.
According to fate, if my wife/girlfriend leaves its not because I beat them or made them sleep with goats its because we were not destine to be together. I no longer have to be a good person because it was my destiny to be a jerk.
A relationship is a gift two people give to each other and it can go away as easy a rainbow. Enjoy what you have while you have it because any of us can get hit by a bus waiting for Mr/Mrs. Right.
2007-04-06 08:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many different sides to this one, I think it is totally your call. There really isn't a right or wrong answer but my advice to you is that you need to be totally aware of both sides and their situations and how they will interact depending on how you go about things.
People have a 3 way relationship and do very well but others can't stand the thought of it. Have you asked them how they feel and if they would be able to deal with being part of 3 instead of exclusive?
2007-04-06 08:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by Murray 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,I don't think so. Contrary to what society and some religions state,being tied to 1 person doesn't,to me,seem to be our nature. We never stop changing because of the experiences we go through.We are learning 'til we die,unless we have a mental setback.
Some refuse to change;could be for ethnic or religious reasons.Now if these 2 people get together and fall in love,well,I'll let you think about that.
2007-04-06 08:27:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God created us that way. Unfortunately, it does not always work that way.
2007-04-06 08:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is wahat you make it out to be,.
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happy easter,...the easter bunny"s coming.,
2007-04-06 08:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋