Q for guys?no perverted comments please!?

Question

well i went to this camp and i go every year, last year i met this guy and we spent the whole week together were like joined at the hip... it was a christian camp so we grew closer to God together, we even went to the end of the week banquet together, we talked so much about anything he seemed to like me so much, he was popular and so was i, he wasn't scared to put his arm aroung me or anything but he was a tad shy around me, well we left camp and before we left he kept promising to call me over and over. well lets just say that that was in june and it is april and still no call, its almost time again for camp again and he'll be their. Why didn't he call me? Should i talk to him when i go back? Im like already nervous about it! help

Answer 1

What you're explaining happens a lot when people go to camp or spend the summer in another city/state. He got back home and got back in with his family and his friends and his routine, and he probably thought about calling you but just wasn't sure about trying to carry on a long-distance relationship over the phone. Don't go thinking that he deliberately blew you off, but don't let him just waltz back into your life as if the two of you never parted. Let him make the first move, and if/when he comes around to talk to you make some comment to the effect of "Oh, so you remember my name at least..." He'll probably say "What's that supposed to mean?" at which time you gently but firmly call him on the carpet for making a promise that he didn't keep. From there it's up to you as to whether you buy whatever excuse he trots out for not calling you, but you should make the point that God commands us to keep our word. Good luck!

Answer 2

Try not to be uptight. I mean really, if your S/O is constantly making jokes like that and after a while it gets a little annoying...just try and bite your tongue....hold on, take a deep breath and just think your thoughts inside your mind without actually saying anything. You can be your own best friend...and you don't need to answer yourself back. It DOES take some time to acquire the skill of your own entertainment with such self control but these are the perfect things to practice on. I mean really, if you LOVE your mate then this too shall pass! If there are OTHER annoying little tidbits as well and maybe even some serious ones then maybe your actually looking to snap on him/her purposely because you subconciously want to get it out on the table and resolve the issue/issues. Or in maybe down inside you want to break free from this person. If there are not any other issues then these small things are the perfect opportunity to just "be still" and let the other just "be" themselves. It's ok to be flirty once in a while or even a lot.... I'm sure you get naughty on occasion. It's just maybe you two are just a little off in timing. :o)

Answer 3

well i may be wrong, but if your a christian then your supposed to care and love everyone..... i wouldnt not talk to him because he didnt call you..... things happen and come up.... maybe something happened and he just was so preoccupied with that that he forgot.... doesnt mean he is ignoring you.... perhaps he is, or maybe he has another life outside of camp and he is there to make others happy.... either way, if he is there dont ignore him, atleast have a little friendship.... i was in Boy Scouts when i was younger and i met people at camps and became friends with them, but even though we traded info on each other, we didnt speak again until camp, or some special event.... sometimes friendships go that way, sometimes they become closer friendships, but dont condemn him for not calling, when you see him ask him if everything is ok and politely ask why he didnt keep in touch, if he had your number or address i think it only fair you got his and if you did, why didnt you contact him, if you didnt then maybe you should get his so you can keep in touch.... good luck

Answer 4

thats so awesome...ive been to a camp just like that. The best thing is not to worry about it. Just be yourself. He obviously feel for you because of the way you are. I think he hasnt called you because, well its the end of another school year and he might be busy with goodbyes and i dont know this guy but maybe he works. I would say, just enjoy the time you have with him.

Answer 5

Definitely talk to him, but don't be overly friendly or flirt with him. If he's at camp this year, play it cool. I'm assuming that you are both young, so perhaps time will bring you closer.

I would let him make the first move, though. A lot can happen in one year, and he may already be in a relationship.

I wish you well!

Answer 6

Any possibility Mr. Wonderful had a nice Christian girl waiting for him at home?

No, do not talk to him when you go back. If he approaches you be polite, stick to pleasantries and do not interrogate him.

Maybe he was just attracted to you for the summer. That happens all the time.

So does men promising to call and never following through. This phenomenon is as prevalent with Christians as it is with Atheists.

Good luck.

Answer 7

He didnt call you cause he found someone else. Dont fall for lame excuses that he lost your number when you come back to camp and find a guy that actually cares about you

Answer 8

..i dont know...why are you still alone after all that time?is he really that fine?..and, didnt he have any other way to get your number?because if he didnt he might have lost it or you might have given him the wrong one...but i doubt that is the case...humm...i am thinking that to him it was just a spur of the moment thing, and he really enjoyed it but knew it couldnt go any further than that..maybe he had a girl back home.. but it doesnt sound good i can tell you that much...just ask him why he didnt call..

Answer 9

I know you said Q for GUYS, but there are some of us girls who've been through the same thing. It sounds like you were a summer fling to him. I wouldnt give him the time of day if you see him again. If you're popular, you can find someone better

Answer 10

it's called a summer fling ... know that most men, and basically all boys under the age of 25 are self centered and dont think much further than the next 5 minutes

and I wouldn't recomend getting into a long distance relationship anyway ...