why after 5 months of not talking to him at all... my ex of 3 1/2 years decides to all the sudden starts talking to me in a flirty way... tells me that how much he misses me... and then yet he tells me that he has another girlfriend on the side!!!! why are guys such jerks????
2007-04-06 07:49:05 · 18 answers · asked by wickedkiwi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He wants to see if he still "has it" and can still get you back if he wanted to. It's his ego. Maybe he does miss certain things about your relationship, maybe he realizes that he made a mistake. Or, he may feel bad about how it ended, and now that so much time has passed, feels it is time to get on a friendly basis with you again. Who knows? I would definitely play it cool. There were reasons you two broke up and those issues will probably still be problems for you now. Show him that you have moved on, as being happy is the best revenge. Good luck.
2007-04-06 07:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by casey308 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because many are jerks.
Quit talking to him. My daughter dated a guy who is nortorious for calling up old girlfriends when he thinks they are between boyfriends. He put her through hell when they were together. No way would I have sat still and let him do it to her again.
Run don't walk away from this jerk.
2007-04-06 07:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because thats how MOST men are.... when they lose something good or leave it for something thats better (at the time) and then when they are alone or want back what they had that was good they try and salvage and do whatever it takes to get that back....
he probably realizes now that you were the best or better part of his life and wants that back... but TRUST is the big thing, i wouldnt give him the time of day unless he earns your trust... if he really wants you back hell ditch the bimbo hes with and spend every waking minute of the day trying to win your heart back again... but i think he is one of them guys just looking for something that you had or gave that the present one doesnt have or give, so tell him to F*** off
2007-04-06 07:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by intimidator5229 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oddly enough...I think it's genetic...we're pigs...
ex of over 3 years...that he only stopped talking to you 5 months ago is amazing to me...
my apologies on behalf of the male species...now drop kick this loser...ask him just how much he misses you when he's with his new girlfriend...preferably in a large public place...after dropping something so every ones watching...then just walk away....tears would help...if 20 guys don't get up and beat him to a pulp...it's just wrong
2007-04-06 07:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by Clif S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being jerks is embedded in their genes, but really, some are incapable of monogomy. Tell him you are not interested .You would not want to be in his current girlfriend's shoes.
2007-04-06 07:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by loveanonymity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to quit stereotyping all guys as jerks.....just because you have chosen the wrong guys does not mean that we are all jerks.Keep searching one day you will find the right one....good luck
2007-04-06 08:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by musclemansix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never miss your water til the well is dry AKA never know what you had till its gone...
if we new why guys were the way they are life would be a lot easier
2007-04-06 07:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he misses the good that you had. if y'all broke up because the bad outweighed the good, than ignore him. it sounds like he still has some growing up to do though. i say stay away.
2007-04-06 07:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by Bobby L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok look on the bright side now you can meet new guys i agree guys are jerks!! (in my oppinion)
2007-04-06 07:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because most guys to tell you the truth are assholes!!!! i mean i have a few of those moments myself but most guys just dont respect girls
2007-04-06 07:53:39 · answer #10 · answered by martinfan#1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋