I know just talking about fantasies is good for a relationship, but should you act? What if it involved another person? Is it okay if it is just the couple involved? Wouls talking about the fantasy help a relationship, or could it hurt it? So many questions>>>I look forward to your answers.
2007-04-06 07:49:17 · 8 answers · asked by redsox75_1984ws 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is nothing wrong with sexual fantasies. Act on it with your spouse if you have one or girlfriend. But talk about it first, don't just jump into it and blindside her. It can't hurt, you never know it could help spice up the relationship. My husband and I enjoy acting on it. When you talk about it, make sure your are in a quiet area, ie. bedroom, living room, car just the two of you. Just talk about it, think about it and have her vision it. It could happen. Maybe not the first day you discuss it, but eventually. Women don't forget about things like this. At least I don't and I like to surprise my husband when he least expects it and then he remembers, "hey this is the fantasy I told you about".
But don't involve outside people. That could hurt the relationship. Keep it between the two of you.
2007-04-06 08:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to approach this subject is to talk to your partner openly about it so that you would get a feel for what is acceptable or not as far as acting on it goes. My husband and I talk about our fantasies w/ each other but we have boundaries that should never be crossed.
2007-04-06 08:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relies upon on what your fantasy is. appearing on your fantasy fills you with a experience ending contact have self assurance me i comprehend. yet i does no longer enable my fantasy's to grow to be a fact at the same time as in a courting until eventually it really is with the guy i'm in a courting with. You sound youthful, fulfill your fantasy earlier you initiate in a intense courting.
2016-12-03 09:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by gureczny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never act on a sexual fantasy if you are involved or married it would be considered cheating in a relationship and adultery in marriage.
2007-04-06 07:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk your fantasies over with your significant other and see if they're interested. For me personally if he wanted to include another female that would end our relationship pronto.
2007-04-06 07:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it a fantasy. The real thing NEVER turns out as well.
2007-04-06 08:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have fantasies that I have acted on and I have some I keep for myself :)
For me its fun to be able to act them out with my partner. Some I know he wouldn't/couldn't handle so those I keep to myself.
***Still waiting to join the Mile High Club :)
2007-04-06 07:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married and your wife does not want to swing or be with other people, you should leave it alone and not chance ruining your relationship.
2007-04-06 08:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋