Family & Relationships - 6 April 2007

am i a bad person for this feelings?its normal to desire another man in marriage?

2007-04-06 10:26:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Trapped



Why do I cry every night? Why do I put myself through this time after time? I’m dying inside very quickly and I don’t see an escape but one, which I don’t want to commit but sometimes I feel is the only way out of this pain. I feel useless and worthless to anyone and everything around. What am I going to do? I want to run and hide but at the same time I don’t want to go anywhere. Nothing is helping me! I can’t make him see that with every drink he takes it’s killing me more and more inside. Our relationship is being effected by it seriously and I seem to be the only one that cares. If I say something it’s turned around to be my fault or I’m just a *****. I can’t live this way anymore. I would end it all right now if it wasn’t for some being greatly affected by my death. I don’t want to watch him kill himself from the drinking. I can’t stop him and I don’t have any support here helping me. They just turn their backs pretending nothing is happening. I am left to pick up the pieces alone. If I had known marriage would be this tough, I would have stayed a Girlfriend. Where do I go from here? How do I make him see that he’s hurting me very badly by doing this all the time? Couples shouldn’t let the other one hurt and if they do they should correct the issue if possible correct? This pain is horrible. Maybe I will go see gram. If only…. Someone, Anyone could help me through this.

2007-04-06 10:25:08 · 18 answers · asked by Jbcanfi74 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have swung before with a couple. She loved it. She is hesitant about doing a MFM or me watching. She gets wet when I tell her how much I'd like to see it.

She's concerned I won't be as excited as I think I will. Any advice? Males or females with experience.

2007-04-06 10:24:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I moved up here for my husband. He told me that I could get a better job and we would be able to make it better up here VS. Ohio. We are now up here and there is nothing more that I want than to go back to Ohio. My family is down there and I am sick of this state. What should I do. Ohh I also can't find a job or a house to rent!

2007-04-06 10:22:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-06 10:21:49 · 22 answers · asked by ruben l 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so like a week ago I met this guy I like that I've met like 3 times, and we've talked twice, and I see him once a week for an hour at an english group...So, what can I talk to him about and do to get him to like me? and how can I tell if he likes me? Last time I seen him he like just smiled at me, but I'm soooo shy I have a hard time thinking of anything to say to him and even just saying hi is hard... any help would be greatly appreciated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-06 10:21:22 · 3 answers · asked by ...confused.. 1 in Singles & Dating

she wanted to be a stay at home mom~~she got hooked up with a old classmate and now wants to run all over like shes 18~~~omg God bless my grandaughter 3 yrs old~~i did get angry at her and let him and her know it yesterday ~~opinions

2007-04-06 10:14:38 · 11 answers · asked by ladysosureone 6 in Marriage & Divorce

SHE TOLD ME TWO DAYS AGO THAT SHE WASN'T HAPPY ANYMORE BECAUSE I DON'T MAKE HER FEEL WANTED. I ADMIT THAT I HAVE NOT BEEN THE MOST ROMANTIC PERSON IN THE WORLD, BUT THIS WOMAN IS MY ENTIRE LIFE EVERYTHING I DO IS TO MAKE SURE THAT SHE'S TAKEN CARE OF. YESTERDAY I FOUND OUT THAT SHE HAS BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE OTHER MAN. DO I SET HER FREE TO MAKE HER HAPPY? IF NOT,HOW DO I WIN BACK THE HEART OF THE PERFECT WOMAN?

2007-04-06 10:13:07 · 18 answers · asked by Sammy B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my step daughter mary hates me. She constantly tries to cause problems between me and her Dad. She tries to get him to divorce me all the time. Please help, what do I do to stop her. she is very cruel, cold hearted and manipultive.

2007-04-06 10:12:00 · 15 answers · asked by Diane G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-06 10:11:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

personally i think sober, from experience of not knowing if the other person acted the way they did because of alcohol or if they actauly like you. just interested in your opinions.

2007-04-06 10:11:46 · 21 answers · asked by Ed 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time and we talk about settling down !But we just dont know whats the perfect time!!! what should We do? How much longer should we wait?

2007-04-06 10:09:02 · 17 answers · asked by Tashae H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Seriously, I've tried everything from being sweet to yelling. A few times, I've left the room and closed the door thinking the alarm would eventually do the trick. This situation is out of hand because I work late nights and need my sleep, however, fighting with him at 7 am to get him off to work makes this impossible for me. I'm open to any suggestions that won't get me in trouble, like throwing water on him. Thank you in advance for your ideas.

2007-04-06 10:05:38 · 28 answers · asked by Stephanie T 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have two wonderful boys. I have a wife who I am just friends with. She is a great person but over the years the emotional connection has died. We have not had sex in years. I have achieved much in life both in my career and in my personal life. I am a respected leader in our church. I have now come to that place where it seems like the train of life has made its final stop and I must get off. I am seeing a psychiatrist plus taking a drug called celexa and have been in counseling. I have prayed but I can't get over the feeling that I've done everything I am suppose to have done in life. I eat..I sleep...I go to work and that is my life. Can you help me?

2007-04-06 10:04:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just found out that my ex-brother in law is abusing cocaine again. he is not home alot, the boys are left to take care of each other since they were very young. He loves his boys, but he just isn't the greatest at buying food or clothes for them. These boys have been through so much, their mother abandoned them long ago (they are 11 and 12 yrs old now) the mom is un-fit to parent. Now all they have is their father, I am their aunt, but live 35 miles away. My mom cleans their house weekly, and she found little empty bags of cocaine today, he said he had quit, but I guess not, and no food in the home. So I took your advice, and called CPS, but CPS did not care about any of what I told them, in fact they told me that having no food in the home is very legal, because they "could" be eating out 3 times a day at Mickey d's. CPS told me it's not my biz how he raises his kids, cocaine, rotting teeth, bones showing, always home alone, no haircuts,doesn't matter,and that I was wasting her time!

2007-04-06 10:00:24 · 11 answers · asked by "Mia" 2 in Family

I met a wonderful guy on the internet that, don't even tell me otherwise, I'm in love with. He lives 2 states down from me and I talk to him and his entire family on the phone and on the internet. My parents don't know about him though. I want to tell them because of course I love my parents and I want to be able to share things with them but I'm afraid that they'll think he's a stalker even when I have his family and pictures of him and his family as proof. I'm scared that if I tell them about him they'll bann me from the computer and from the phone. I don't think I'd be able to live without him. HELP ME!!! How can I tell my parents?!

2007-04-06 09:57:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everyone thought that someone had invited somebody or that somebody was going somewhere,but in reality nobody did and somebody didnt have somewhere to go so they were alone for the holidays!

2007-04-06 09:56:02 · 4 answers · asked by raindovewmn41 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Every time I try to have a normal conversation with my husband he starts getting irritated and raising his voice. He constantly tells me that he doesn't give a **** and doesn't know why i am asking him stuff... i dont know what to do to be able to just talk to my husbad like we used to.

2007-04-06 09:55:39 · 2 answers · asked by GIRL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim
What happens next when a Muslim WOMAN hits her husband? I accidentally hurt my husband by throwing a small statue at the door as he was leaving. I didn't mean for it to even go near him. Unfortunately, the statue shattered and cut my husband badly in the face. What is going to happen to our marriage?

2007-04-06 09:53:45 · 6 answers · asked by YoundSadNBlue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-06 09:51:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well my G/F and I have been dateing for awhile now. And We have talked about getting married. But this is her first serious relationship. I am 23 and she is 19. I have been married befoer and I know what it is all about, the how too's and not to do's. My question is should i be worried about getting married because this is her first serious relationship? I know that I am ready for the next step and I really hope that she is.

2007-04-06 09:46:15 · 9 answers · asked by Perez1983 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have never heard that in my life till i joined this please tell me

2007-04-06 09:43:03 · 35 answers · asked by qutie2day 3 in Singles & Dating

i've had very young ladies try to pick me up, but it really fills strange. i'm sort of old fashioned and really don't understand this.

2007-04-06 09:37:50 · 34 answers · asked by michael_6446 2 in Singles & Dating

I just recently found out he had been cheating on me and lying to me many many times...and now he is always looking at some other women without even trying to hide it, even his collegues at work(he cheated on me with 2 collegues before!) and saying itto me as its perfectly ok, he says he fantasizes about them and things. he is looking at other women's photos and masturbating to them even when he is at my plave and then later he doesnt even want to have sex with me...and now he is telling me that he has been thinking about others while we have sex too and that is normal too and that im a ***** for getting upset over this...i try to explain what that makes me feel like especially after what he did to me but he just doesnt want to understand...what should i do??i feel like i deserve more respect than that..

2007-04-06 09:36:11 · 6 answers · asked by Sarcastic Ms Know-it-all 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-06 09:33:03 · 36 answers · asked by nisey 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-06 09:30:40 · 55 answers · asked by philip w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-06 09:22:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I’m working in a Muslim country. In 2005 a Sunni man saved me from kidnappers and we’ve become like brothers. This Sunni has two wives. One, he secretly married for love when he was 24 (Wife1); and one he married publicly 10 years later according to tribal tradition (Wife2). He has 3 children with both wives.

Recently, Wife2 discovered his secret Wife1. Because my friend falsified his marriage contract with Wife2, by not disclosing Wife1, she’s returned to her father’s house with their children. In this country, Wife2 can’t remarry.

My friend loves both his families and asked me to help him. I appealed to the mothers of both wives for a plan to divide of my friend’s time, affections and money between the two wives, and Wife2 has agreed to submit to the mothers. I really care about all these people. Have I done the right thing?

2007-04-06 09:22:18 · 8 answers · asked by Sultan 4 in Marriage & Divorce

that you sent E-Mail to and got back only 1 0r 2 word replys? That's so aggravating to me.

2007-04-06 09:20:24 · 5 answers · asked by don 6 in Singles & Dating

ok heres my situation, I'm 36, shes 37, we been married 16 years and have 3 kids ,in the last 15 years I had 1 job that provided for our needs we scraped by, I was laid off last summer, and took a construction job that paid really good, my checks were double what i was makeing before, now this job is complete the next job is 12 hours away, my wife doesnt want to travel cause of her job and the kids in school, Im not going to find a job here where we live that will pay as good as Im getting, I really love my wife and dont want to go if it will eventualy end up in divorce

2007-04-06 09:20:08 · 12 answers · asked by born2hunt_forced2work 2 in Marriage & Divorce