I moved up here for my husband. He told me that I could get a better job and we would be able to make it better up here VS. Ohio. We are now up here and there is nothing more that I want than to go back to Ohio. My family is down there and I am sick of this state. What should I do. Ohh I also can't find a job or a house to rent!
2007-04-06 10:22:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I moved to North Carolina for my husband 11 years ago, from Virginia Beach, and you talk about home sick. I still am. I never thought that when I married my husband that I would become a Military Wife at the ripe old age of 38! You didn't say why you moved. Is it your husbands home town? Is he in the Military? Did he get a better job? Anyway, be patient about the job. After I became disabled from a car wreck, I was offered the job of my dreams but because I had just received disability, I knew with my injuries, it wouldn't work out-well I'm 49 now, and much worse. So just please, please be patient and put yourself out there. Get to know as many people as you can by shopping, eating out, church, or whatever is your thing. Remember, sometimes its all in who you know when it comes to jobs. Oh, and the way things are today, it is hard to get jobs anyway. If you love your husband, if he is good to and for you, stay with him. Trust me-I know!
2007-04-06 10:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by ImissNC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could either make things work out and get over your homesickness, or leave your husband. Your choice.
I have a feeling you didn't go into this move with an open mind and both feet. How about getting behind your husband for a change instead of being miserable about the move.
2007-04-06 17:28:09 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you like Ohio better, move back. Talk to your husband about it. If your not happy he should listen and understand
2007-04-06 17:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Nichole[never gives up]♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's quite a dilemma your in.
Have you spoken to your husband about your unhappiness?
If he will not move back with you, go alone. If he really loves you and wants your relationship to work, he will fallow.
Good Luck.
2007-04-06 17:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where in NH? I live in NH, it's not that bad. It could be worse you could live in Maine.
I work in Massachusetts, I work in high tech. My wife works for a medical clinic in Portsmouth. What field are looking for a job in?
2007-04-06 17:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by Fester Frump 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned a long time ago, that no matter where you go, no matter where you live, it's pretty much all the same, so don't be fooled by scenery changes.
Move back to where you were happy...
2007-04-06 17:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by DuSteDShaDoW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should sit down with your husband and tell him about your concerns and that your in this together he should value your feelings and your wishes. if that doesnt work try a few tears hehehe or make some compromises
2007-04-06 17:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by I_got_the_wow_effect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where does your husband live ! on the streets ?
2007-04-06 17:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by James k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
New Hampshire is crap.
2007-04-06 17:28:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋