Well my G/F and I have been dateing for awhile now. And We have talked about getting married. But this is her first serious relationship. I am 23 and she is 19. I have been married befoer and I know what it is all about, the how too's and not to do's. My question is should i be worried about getting married because this is her first serious relationship? I know that I am ready for the next step and I really hope that she is.
2007-04-06 09:46:15 · 9 answers · asked by Perez1983 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont mean to sound harsh but you should already know if this is the girl 4u!!
Just because this is her 1st relationship that dont mean she cant spend the rest of her life with you.
Go for it,If you think she is the one...Good luck!!
2007-04-06 10:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow you been marriage before and you are only 23, you must be mature for your age. most young peoples about this age want to date different peoples and get marriage later on, she 19. I know I got with my boyfriend and I was 20, he was 24. If I had to do it again, I wouldn't do it. yes, I was madly in love and we was always together constantly.....we had a child together after 2 yrs of marriage, and it was great! but marriage have it ups and downs, just get the communication going and never let the romance flicker out! that what happen to mine after 20 yrs. I still have feelings for him now, but we grew up and grew apart from one another over the years.but I wish you 2 the best, if you think she the one for you....
2007-04-06 16:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by birdsdafly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her being 19 is kind of young to be getting married. You should just wait it out for a couple of years and see how it all works out for you. Do you really want to get another divorce if it comes down to it. She should mature a little before the decision is made. There is nothing wrong with taking your time to explore each other. Live together first, as a trial run and see if that works out.
2007-04-06 16:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by WOOOOO Whooo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are too young to start marriage number two and she is too young for marriage number one. Why the rush? Slow down and mature a little first.
2007-04-06 17:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...you're only 23 and you're contemplating your next marriage??
Slow down. Your girlfriend is only 19. You are both very young. You don't want to be 28 and contemplating your third marriage.
2007-04-06 16:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are 23 and have been married before?
Now you think you know all there is to being married?
I think you need to leave this girl alone and go pick on someone your own size.
2007-04-06 16:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by Tarro 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are both too young, duh!! You are already divorced at 23, what does that tell you. Just be in love and enjoy your romance, DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN before marriage, it is a huge mistake, should not be rushed into. Be careful!!!
FYI, You do not know "what it is all about"
2007-04-06 16:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I think it's a concern. I would feel uneasy if my partner was young an inexperienced - I wouldn't trust their ability to make informed choices.
2007-04-06 16:52:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow...you two are so young.....I personally think you should enjoy your young lives and not get married so fast.....
2007-04-06 16:51:34 · answer #9 · answered by Spaceyangel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋