she wanted to be a stay at home mom~~she got hooked up with a old classmate and now wants to run all over like shes 18~~~omg God bless my grandaughter 3 yrs old~~i did get angry at her and let him and her know it yesterday ~~opinions
2007-04-06 10:14:38 · 11 answers · asked by ladysosureone 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, this is a sad story. It sounds like she just doesn't know what she wants really. Not only will there be a divorce but also who will get custody of the little girl? Shared custody?
Or will she give up custody so she can run around with her old classmate and 10 years down the road want the daughter back? It sounds like she has some serious problems. My prayers are with your son and your family. Actually, it sounds as if he married the wrong woman. Better that he find out now than when he is 50. At least, he can find another woman. Hopefully, he will choose better next time. A woman that will be a good mother to his little girl and a good wife to him. Good luck.
2007-04-06 10:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In today's' world 4 years = nothing really in the area of alimony,
Your son should move for full custody of the child, with your backing as toward watching the child versus day care, because mom only after 4 years will not be getting alimony, so she will be going to work
2007-04-06 18:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by goz1111 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she has not worked at all and he is the only support, he will be required to pay child support and alimony.
He will think that he can throw a scare into her by going for custody. The courts have seen this tactic a million times. It doesn't work, in fact they hit you harder when you try it.
Divorce is painful all the way around and for everyone involved. Sorry.
2007-04-06 17:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by JV 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't really understand the question, but if she wants to run around like she is 18 that is her choice...your son can seek custody if he so desires...other than that...they will be divorced eventually
2007-04-06 17:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't find the question in that statement!
You should stay out of it and help with your grand-daughter as much as you can. Your son is a grown man, and he can take care of his own private dealings. Your job raising him is done, just help out with the baby.
2007-04-06 19:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you can do is just be there for your son because he needs your love and support but stay out of it. It is there business and it is okay to let them know you're upset but leave it at that and be there for your grandbaby. good luck!
2007-04-06 17:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You had no right getting angry with your daughter in law. It is none of your business. Butt out.
2007-04-06 18:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I understand you ( because it wasn't easy) I say mind your own business. This is your sons divorice not yours. Just be there for him but with your lips sealed shut.........
2007-04-06 17:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he keeps the daughter
the property
and she gets diddly...
he should use the word 'abandonment' often...
you should try to think about it less...it's out of your control...support him...and good luck
2007-04-06 17:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by Clif S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry i have to say it but its not you its him he is grown so stay out of it.. Its not your business... Good-luck
2007-04-06 17:21:07 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine(s) 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋