We have swung before with a couple. She loved it. She is hesitant about doing a MFM or me watching. She gets wet when I tell her how much I'd like to see it.
She's concerned I won't be as excited as I think I will. Any advice? Males or females with experience.
2007-04-06 10:24:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like she is pretty smart and may or may not be right in her assessment but as your wife knows you more completely that most. Be careful what you ask for and listen to her as her needs are as important, as does her wanting to be shared equal your wanting to share her. There are some things that are best left to fantasy because you can always control the outcome. Real life is much more cruel and sometimes there are no gobacks, do overs or mulligans and what you get is what you gamble on. Just remember to think about everyone involved and not only satisfaction for you. There is so much to balance in that lifestyle and you have to be prepared to accept the consequences even if they are in opposition to what you wanted or believe. Good luck.
2007-04-06 10:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by g_menagerie 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I have friends that do that, and I myself have been involved. If there is ever any hesitation with either spouse, you need to move onto the next thing that interests you both. My friend has her husband always saying that he wants her to do another man while he watches, and she is totally against that. She feels it would change their relationship, and she wouldn't feel right. He has done other women, and she has done women with him. For some reason, when its a MFM.. It never seems to work out right.
2007-04-07 04:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, allow me 2 say that from my experince it has been fun...(mfm)...Problem being is i am sure u will b as turned on as expected but b careful not 2 start pimpin ur wife out or at least make her feel that way.
My hubby loves it when we bring in a human toy and i like it....Just sometimes I do feel like he pimps me out.
Make sure the other person is someone she is attracted to not that this person is ur pick
2007-04-06 10:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by JO 1 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I'm not into swinging myself but I have been a few 3somes in my day. The idea of one is cool, but if my man was watching I don't think I would be turned on by him just watching. I would want him involved somehow I think..
2007-04-06 10:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
it was the best experience that I have ever had with my wife. And she told me it was the best sex ever! In short, we just love it. And we love each other more!
2007-04-07 05:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by allan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its weird
my first wife, I don't care what she does anymore
my girlfriend , who I guess I don't even know, just the thought of her gettin with somebody male upsets me very much
2007-04-06 10:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Advise against the practice.
2007-04-06 10:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to share the person you love? I just don't understand that.
2007-04-06 10:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by Fierce Lioness 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
thats just bad... why would you want that in your life? i had a friend that did that and they are so long divorced they dont talk whatsoever.. why would u turn your beautiful wife into a hoe? im sorry to seek God's word plz!
2007-04-06 10:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
From watching my sisters marriage fail, due to their swinging. I wouldn't recommend it.
2007-04-06 10:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋