Family & Relationships - 6 April 2007

My boyfriend is a really great guy. I like him a lot, but I am presently trying to get over sexual abuse. He understands how horrible that was for me and how im still learning to trust, but i do feel a little uncomftorable with him doing a whole lot of snuggling and kissing my neck and stuff. Im not really sure how to tell him or if i should even tell him that. Should i tell him that or not??? Do you think he will be mad at me if i tell him? If you think i should tell him, how should i tell him im a little uncomftorable???

2007-04-06 13:16:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you feel like you are paying way to much money for your place. ( I know that this is not the category to ask this question, but I will get the most responces here)

2007-04-06 13:14:18 · 13 answers · asked by James 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-06 13:06:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do girls like guys hair long or short, i personally like my hair long, but the older crod out there make u get hair cuts so i want to see if i am right that they like it, or am i a hippy?

2007-04-06 13:04:07 · 13 answers · asked by clempurdue 1 in Singles & Dating

maybe we should lease a mate with a 5 year option to renew or buy. Or maybe open marriages, but is that natural? or maybe the better looking people should marry less attractive people who will stay faithful to them and let them cheat? Or maybe it's a problem with Morals and values?

2007-04-06 13:03:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-06 13:02:21 · 5 answers · asked by Doug K 1 in Friends

2007-04-06 12:56:40 · 6 answers · asked by Obadiah Darnell Gilliam [ The Phenom] 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has a female friend who he says is his best friend EVER. He and she both assure me that they are just friends.

She does not come inside our house but they take our kids for walks, to the park, to stores, etc. while I am at work. (We work opposite schedules so we do not have to put our children in daycare.) We have two kids and she has one.

I told my husband that I was jealous of the time that they spend together because she sees him more than I do! He took it the wrong way and only heard the word "Jealous" and now this HUGE argument has started between the three of us.

They both say that they are exactaly alike and that they have never found anyone else in the world that is like them. This makes me angry!

He says that I am being ridiculous and it is not fair that he should have to sacrifice the best friend he has ever had.

We only meet this girl four months ago...

What do I do? How do I change my feelings and be okay with their "relationship"?

2007-04-06 12:54:00 · 30 answers · asked by Bubba K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister-in-law got pregnant and has decided to get married. Both my sister-in-law and her soon-to-be husband will be living with her parents. What would you give as a wedding gift? The wedding is next Saturday. She's hispanic but doesn't speak Spanish (mentioning only if needed as a hint or clue). Please only serious answers. Thank you.

2007-04-06 12:53:01 · 21 answers · asked by kwfl070405 1 in Weddings

please inform me about how to go about doing this?

2007-04-06 12:52:34 · 10 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-06 12:50:51 · 9 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Been with same lovely fabulous person for 5 years but i'm slacking in the bedroom dept, never have energy or real passion. Help I love him but this is getting me down. Ive always up untill the last two years been quiet you know adventurous and good..... so i've been told. I just have got a bit bored. Help!

2007-04-06 12:48:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

understand this bondage stuff is all about 'trust' but what about when it becomes more along the line of rape..? someone i know has a friend whose boyfriend continuously tries to tie her down, or have her tie him down, and she tells him she doens't want to but, he always tries for it... he always takes her 'no's' and stops but he tries every single time... my questions are... do other young guys find this enjoyable? is it getting dangerous that he wants it to be more like rape? is there somethign wrong with him?

2007-04-06 12:48:18 · 1 answers · asked by Stephanie P 1 in Singles & Dating

He broke up with me yesterday. We are seniors in high school and have been together for 2 years. He liked me since 7th grade. We were very close and we got along fine but he started spending more time with his friends. Anytime I would speak up and say something wasn't right he would either send me home or say "look , if you don't stop this, I'm gonna break up with you." or if he didn't get his way he would turn things around on me and make it seem like it was my fault. For the past 4 weekends he has made up some excuse for why he can't see me. Last week it was b/c he had to help his friend work on his car. The week b4 it was cuz an old friend was in town. But when I spoke up about it yesterday he said I just wanted him all to myself and it was only one day (which wasn't true b/c the 2 days b4 he didn't see me and he wasn't gonna see me until after Sunday) so he broke up w/ me b/c we fight too much. Do u think he will realize he was selfish and change to get back with me?

2007-04-06 12:47:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i have this friend who is madly in love with a monkey. and she has been to rehab 10 times. she wears man clothes and is 50 and never had even a little crush. or boyfriend. does that sound believable.

2007-04-06 12:42:41 · 5 answers · asked by KP 2 in Friends

2007-04-06 12:42:38 · 8 answers · asked by beckyzhou98 2 in Friends

2007-04-06 12:41:07 · 3 answers · asked by antnee 1 in Family

Im going to UC Santa Barbara next year which is heavily white but I wanted to join a frat. Is it unusual for a black guy to get into a very white frat?

2007-04-06 12:40:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend who i care about so much use to be obsessed with my best friend for years and then this past summer before we got together they dated and then she ended it for another guy. He was crushed and still liked her months later. Then we started to like each other and he promised me he was over my friend. We were happy and he hadn't talked to her for months. Then i went on vacation and the first day i was gone he talked to her and told her he missed hanging out with her. I was upset and told him we needed a break because i don't trust him and i think he still has feelings for my friend. He swears he doesn't and i know he does care about me a lot. Right now we're on a break and he wants to get back together.....should i give him another chance .....do you think he still likes her? What do you think of this situation? I'm afraid if i go back out with him that i won't be able to trust him and won't be completely happy and always have what he did in the back of my mind.

2007-04-06 12:40:00 · 14 answers · asked by *lil' leasha lu* 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother in law and I have had problems for years. We have just had our first child and she is driving me mad. We went there yesterday for lunch and when he cried she wouldnt let me have him back, even to feed (she told me to just express and she would do it!) she is insisting that when he is old enough to talk he call her mama, and keeps telling me that I am doing everything wrong (she says breast feeding is bad, picking him up when he cries is bad etc) I feel almost like she is trying to push me out of the picture and I dont like that, its going to sound stupid, but I definitely dont want the baby calling her mama. She is an alcoholic and I really dont want her near him, but thats not really an option. How do I get her to back off and let me be a mother?

2007-04-06 12:38:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend have about 1year and 5 months
i love him alot , we have arguments and he is a real jealous person . i always thought i still had feelings for my ex so i wanted to prove my self wrong.So i went out with him behind my boyfriend. we end up kissing , but i realize how much i hated him, and that my boyfriend was way better than him, but i feel bad because we kissed and i its not fair for my boyfriend.i know he would never cheat on me.do you think i should tell him or keep it to myself.

2007-04-06 12:36:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-06 12:27:47 · 42 answers · asked by kevin 1 in Family

2007-04-06 12:26:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here is an interesting article on the topic.

http://www.medsocial.com/blog.aspx?blogaction=viewblog&show=334

2007-04-06 12:24:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-06 12:23:11 · 11 answers · asked by Just-Me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yeah, of course I love him. But there are two issues that drive me insane.
a.) He always tunes me out. I will just be talking to him about stuff. Not nagging him to do anything. Just talking to him. Yet when I get done, he says "say that again!" He never seems to hear me. And I don't like repeating myself over and over. I feel disrespected.
B.) He thinks he knows EVERYTHING. He says it all the time. I feel like his child in the way that he treats me alot of the time.
:(
So has anyone felt this way before? What do I do to change things. We have been married 5 yrs, and together 7. (2 kids)

2007-04-06 12:19:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know this is an old issue but I believe we underestimate the damage politicians do with badly thought out legislation especially when it comes to income,taxation,and poverty.
They certainly don't help.

2007-04-06 12:18:22 · 23 answers · asked by melbournewooferblue 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-06 12:12:42 · 60 answers · asked by kelly m 2 in Family

I've been with my boyfriend for about 1 1/2 months, and he's kinda getting on my nerves. He tells me things that I REALLY don't want to know, and sometimes, he reminds me of my brother. ((REALLY bad thing!!)) But on the other hand, he's really nice, funny, and sweet. A few days later, I got in contact with my ex-boyfriend. He told me that he still loves me, and I kinda still love him. He has never done anything wrong, and I have to admit that he's like the best boyfriend I have ever had and I truely, don't understand why I broke up with him in the first place. I think I might want to break up with my current boyfriend and get back with my ex-boyfriend but I don't want to break his heart, and pretty much everywhere I go, I always see him and it will be hard to avoid him. WHAT SHOULD I DO??

2007-04-06 12:08:44 · 12 answers · asked by Rav3n 1 in Singles & Dating

was in love with a married woman who was in a bad relationship with her husband. she told me she loved him but was not in love with him, whereas she was in love with me.
such thing?

2007-04-06 12:06:36 · 12 answers · asked by david g 2 in Marriage & Divorce