I've been with my boyfriend for about 1 1/2 months, and he's kinda getting on my nerves. He tells me things that I REALLY don't want to know, and sometimes, he reminds me of my brother. ((REALLY bad thing!!)) But on the other hand, he's really nice, funny, and sweet. A few days later, I got in contact with my ex-boyfriend. He told me that he still loves me, and I kinda still love him. He has never done anything wrong, and I have to admit that he's like the best boyfriend I have ever had and I truely, don't understand why I broke up with him in the first place. I think I might want to break up with my current boyfriend and get back with my ex-boyfriend but I don't want to break his heart, and pretty much everywhere I go, I always see him and it will be hard to avoid him. WHAT SHOULD I DO??
2007-04-06 12:08:44 · 12 answers · asked by Rav3n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow your heart.
Imagine this: you spend the rest of your life with your current boyfriend because you don't want to break his heart. Is that good for you? Is that fair to him? Of course not. The sooner you move on the easier it is for everyone.
His heart will break a lot worse after 1 and 1/2 YEARS than after 1 and 1/2 MONTHS. Don't tell him your breaking up because you still like your ex (that's mean). Just give him the old "it's not you it's me" speech and "we can be friends" etc etc etc and get it over with.
Good luck!
2007-04-06 12:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time makes you forget the bad parts of a relationship. The reasons you broke up with the old boyfriend are still there, he hasn't changed. Break up with the new boyfriend if you want, but don't do it for the old one. Classic mistake, one that you will regret.
2007-04-06 19:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with yourself and those 2 guys. If you really want to get back with your ex, there's nothing wrong with that! Just be honest! Don't waste other people's time. If you're still not sure yourself just take some time to reflect on your feelings. Believe me, if you're honest with people, even though you hurt their feelings, they would appreciate you for being straight forward. But if you decide to play games, you are the only person to feel bad about it afterwards.
2007-04-06 19:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by Koshechka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tough one, i would just say follow your heart, but you probibally wanna hear more than that! if you really do love your ex as much as you say, then thats who you half to be with. if you stay with your current boyfriend, and your not happy about it then nobody wins. but try not to jump right into a relationship with ur ex, take it one step at a time, it will be easier on your current boyfriend if he doesnt see you guys a couple right away.
Good Luck!
ps: whatever you choice to do, do not cheat!
2007-04-06 19:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your present boyfriend and then don't have a boyfriend. Just play the field for a while. Try them all out.
2007-04-06 19:18:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you don't love your current BF..so there is no point in staying with him,when you don't love him. If you want to get back with your ex, you should wait a month after you break up with your current one.
If you need to talk you can contact me.
2007-04-06 19:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your mind is already made up that you are going to break up with him and with every ex you have to suffer the consequnces of the awkwardness. you just gotta explain to him that you are feeling a more of a friendly love towards him instead of a romantic love. and u'll just have to put up with any akward moments when they come. good luck
2007-04-06 19:15:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your current boyfriend.
Broken hearts are part of life, just accept it and do it now.
2007-04-06 19:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by UnTrace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get back wit your x it seams like you would be better off wit him then the 1 you have know becuz the 1 you have kno reminds you of your brother somtimes...& your x still like you to so give it another try
well hope i helped
~13chula13~
2007-04-06 19:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by .:CHULA:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST STRAIGHT UP TELL HIM THAT YOU AND YOUR EX ARE GOING TO TRY AND WORK THINGS OUT, AND YOU DONT WANT TO HURT HIM BUT YOU CANT BE WITH HIM AND BE LOVIN SOMEONE ELSE. SOMETIMES BEING STRAIGHT UP IS THE WAY TO GO.
2007-04-06 19:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by sexy24244 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋