Me and my boyfriend have about 1year and 5 months
i love him alot , we have arguments and he is a real jealous person . i always thought i still had feelings for my ex so i wanted to prove my self wrong.So i went out with him behind my boyfriend. we end up kissing , but i realize how much i hated him, and that my boyfriend was way better than him, but i feel bad because we kissed and i its not fair for my boyfriend.i know he would never cheat on me.do you think i should tell him or keep it to myself.
2007-04-06 12:36:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you want to keep your relationship keep your mouth shut and hope everyone else does. Next time put yourself in his place, don't do anything you wouldn't want him too.
2007-04-06 12:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep that piece of information to yourself and bury it deep. It was just kissing, you learned from it. it won't ever happen again and you now appreciate more than ever what you have. You don't need to hurt him. Just treat him better from now on.
By the way, we have some rules in our relationship to prevent that type of thing.
1. never be alone with someone of the opposite sex. No exceptions!!
2. If you don't want your partner to know what you are doing than don't do it!
3. No getting drunk unless you are together or with a (same sex) person that respects your relationship and won't let you stray.
2007-04-06 19:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by babydoll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not ready for a relationship. A year and a 1/2 is not that long to be with someone. People are together for decades without acting on temptation. You stepped outside that quite easily.
2007-04-06 19:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can always tell him the truth but that could give you 90% chance of him breaking up with you and 10% of him understanding that if he wants to marry you, he needs an honest wife. But it's always your choice, that's if you want to stay guilty or releas ethe guilt and tell him the truth which can make him leave you or stay with you but wont trust you as much.
2007-04-06 19:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by ♥westsidebabyy;; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's better not to say anything. You can never be sure if the truth is gonna hurt more than a secret.
2007-04-06 19:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by charliecizarny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be ashamed of yourself!
But if it was just a kiss and you have no other feeling for your ex...do not tell your current bf. He will break up with you in a heart beat. And don't do it again.
2007-04-06 19:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria78 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
keep it to yourself. it was only a kiss. you shouldn't have done it but as long as it didn't go any further,let it go.put it out of your head and move on. learn from your mistake. if you tell him, it's over.
2007-04-06 19:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep this one to yourself.
No sense in having 2 ex's back to back.
2007-04-06 19:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by Ella 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Say nothing. Telling him only helps you feel better and makes him feel worse.
2007-04-07 00:42:55 · answer #9 · answered by Franny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself, but I hope you learned your lesson. Stay away from your exes. Pray that he doesn't have any doubts that he wants to clear up.
2007-04-06 19:41:57 · answer #10 · answered by ♥SummerRain♥ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋