We have been together a few years, and I can admitt that for the first year or so I was a little posessive of him. I can say I was wrong for that, but lately a lot of evidence has popped up without me even looking for it. The most recent piece of the puzzle was a text message it went somthing like "I didnt work today, I called verizon" I didn't reconize the number it was sent to so I called it and no surprise it was a female's voice on the other end. He also has a second cell phone that I have found on 2 occasions. each time I confront him he says I'm making false accusations. what can I do?
2007-04-06 07:44:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your son's dad???
Too bad he's not your husband otherwise you'd get half his stuff. Just take the child support checks and bounce!!
2007-04-06 07:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds very suspicious. Tell him u've found the other cell phone, and he's got a week to make a decision to come clean and change his ways or get out. Lucky for you if u've not aleady established child support, when you do, he's going to be owing you back child support for the years u've been together and unmarried in addition to what he's gonna owe u for the rest of you son's young life. Sorry he sucks, but it sounds like u may have an unfaithful jerk on your hands
2007-04-06 14:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and move on to a REAL MAN. If your man isn't cheating, then there will be NO SIGNS of cheating. If you think he is cheating, then he's cheating. Which kind of evidence would you prefer....which STD??? There are plenty to choose from....take you pick....he can give you HIV if you really want evidence.
I know that sounds harsh, but you have got to love YOU more than you love this man who obviously doesn't love nor respect you. If you love yourself more then you will have a no-nonsense attitude when it comes to him and any other man for that matter. I just hope that you open your eyes before it's too late.
2007-04-06 14:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by Keetta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut feeling. 9 times out of 10, a person's gut feeling is right. Investigate pronto.
2007-04-06 14:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he can't be completely open with you that there's no point in continuing the relationship. A healthy relationship should have no secrets.
2007-04-06 14:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by SueB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married? If not, what can you do except just leave him if you believe he's being unfaithful. If he has nothing to hide, he won't hide anything. Your gut feeling is usually accurate.
2007-04-06 14:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating.
He's lying to you too.
Take him to court for child support and run.
And why is he your son's father and not your boyfriend?
2007-04-06 15:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by poeticmami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be. Just follow your instincts. That's how I found out the truth.
2007-04-06 14:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live the life you are living and not worry about and keep busy,, or you can sock money away secretly and then leave him,
2007-04-06 15:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you need to understand what is going on and that you are not stupid cuz something is going on
2007-04-06 14:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋