she's turning 18 and wants an older man to spend it with. There's a few others things she wants bedroom wise but I have tried to speak with about boys her own age. She won't hear of it, she wants this fat middleaged old man. I can't explain it.
2007-04-06 09:11:45 · 13 answers · asked by wantingtobedead 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why do you call yourself a fat old man. Maybe she is attracted to you for you and once she turns 18 she is legal. Maybe she sees things in you she really likes and wants to be with you. Don't put yourself down feel proud a younger chick wants a older guy. She is probably tired of little boys her age who play games. If you are not interested in her then be honest and tell her the age difference is too much for you and the answer is no she needs to spend time with a guy her own age.
2007-04-06 09:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 23:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The magic work in this question is "18"...She is of legal age to make her own decisions whether we like them or not. We can voice our opinion, but do it tactfully and do not threaten or berate her. In time she may change and the attraction will fade. But who are you or anyone else to say that this is totally wrong at all??? They may be perfectly happy.....Keep quiet and be there for her when she needs you.
2007-04-06 09:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by Diane H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for her.I sure wish there were more girls like her. Yes, I am a middle aged fat guy.
Old guys have more experience, more patience, more gratitude and more money than boys her age
While we may want to brag about our sweet young thangs, we dont do it as loud or often as a kid who had another conquest.
Maybe if you kids would treat your women like they want you would get more.Even18 year old girls know how a princess should be treated and they love it when they are treated that way.
Old guys rock.
2007-04-06 09:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she wants someone a more mature than your average 18 year old. Alot of the time I can really understand why. Also I think you should really have this chat with her then maybe she can give you the answers you want.
2007-04-06 09:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are the fat middle aged old man...just say no
she is 18 and can do as she pleases...if you say no she can't do anything
if you are not that person..try going and talking to that person
be cool...
2007-04-06 09:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older man - younger woman and older woman - younger man relationships are accepted everwhere and even ENCOURAGED in almost everyother country in the world
shes ******* 18, let her do what she wants, i think she is extremely smart to want to be with an older man.. older men are more stable
why are you dissing her becuase she wnts to be with a more sexualy experenced and stable MAN!
maybe your just jealous
2007-04-06 09:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by Raven Ty Marx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't. She's old enough to make her OWN decisions & find out for herself. Tell HER "what to do", & she might tell YOU- to "get lost". Play it "cool" & see what happens. All things are "explained"- in due time.
2007-04-06 09:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All part of growing up I guess. Give her your best advice is all you can do. You can't live her life for her. Just be there in case things go wrong.
Happy Easter :-)
2007-04-06 09:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by chekeir 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you slap her
then slap yourself
then slap the fat old middle aged man
2007-04-06 09:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋