yup am in middle school, typical boy problems but am stuck, i dont know what to do!!
so there's this guy and "liked" me b4 after a week he gave up on me and went out with my best friend >he new i liked him<. now he comes back to me and we went out to the movies me him and other friends. he kept on flirting with me ppl told us that we should go out. ok.... i get home and were still talkin by text messaging. its been like that for a week. in school he would talk 2 me, he would run with my stuff, so i would run after him and like wrestle for it. he told me he likes me but am not sure what i feel about him. i get sad when we dont talk. i get butterflies in my tummy when we do talk.... but i dont know if i like him!!! he thinks am awsome and i think so too. but hes a player and he flirts with a mad amount of girls i dont know if hes just messing with me or hes being foreal. is it one of his charms that he plays with girls??
Help please!!!!!
2007-04-06 08:51:20 · 13 answers · asked by heyhey* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You definitely have a crush. (The butterflies gave it away.) But he does sound much like a flirt. He went out with your bestfriend so he may like her too. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Don't sit at home waiting for him to call. Live, laugh, love.
You have to kiss a few frogs before you find a prince.
2007-04-06 08:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by alikilee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are too young to be dealing with these issues. Let's get get the story straight; here is the deal. He didn't get anywhere with you the first go around, so he went for your friend. Then after dating your friend, in your face; he dumps her to try to get at you again. But during all of this flirting with you, he is mad flirting with other girls at your school too. So in essence you aren't that special, to him your just like all the other girls he is trying to get at in your school.
Suggestion: Do your home work and make good grades. Go to highschool, graduate with honors. Get into college, then start dating, by then you would have heard all of the situation you know not to get involved in, and steer clear of.
2007-04-06 09:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in denial about liking him....what is that...?
And if he flirts with a mad amount of girls then why bother...I think that is an extremely unattractive quality in a guy....big turn off. I would kick him to the curb sister....The guy is no good....plus he has already went out with your BFF.
2007-04-06 08:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's flirting with a mad amount of girls as you say it then you're just one of the mad amount of girls he likes to flirt with. If he was sincere with you, he would've done more than take your things away and wrestle it with you...cute but not quite romantic.
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2007-04-06 08:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by Leilyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i certainly does not get your hopes up on being along with her. each lesbian and gay has as quickly as fallen for somebody who's straight away, it happens and that's a depressing technique. yet in the top, it truly is in basic terms unlikely to take place. there will be the ordinary case of a woman determining she's gay (no, not turning gay, it is genetically impossible). i could desire to be speedy to choose, yet i will assume you're in intense college, so as that makes it ten situations worse. with any luck you will detect a woman who likes women. help her, nonetheless. Be an intensive pal, i think of if he's hurting her, it truly is solid you are trying to make her see issues for sure. yet attempt comprehend, if she does finally end up breaking apart with him, it truly is *probable* unlikely to be for you and she or he'll probable land up with yet another guy. in case you heavily think of there's a intense threat she's gay or bisexual, then you definately could desire to tell her the form you sense as a chum and notice how she responds, yet i don't advise doing this in case you're undecided. you may desire to wreck a large friendship.
2016-10-02 07:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you want to go with him but you dont want to be one of the girls thats gonna get played. If you want to date him, run with his game if he's gonna flirt. Getting yourself attached to him will only hurt you in the end. If you dont want to just another chick he's played..then just leave it be how it is and dont get into a relationship with him.
2007-04-06 09:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by dymedouthunni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can like him, but don't date him. From what I am hearing you say about him is that he's characterized a player. Don't waste your time with such a guy who could later on hurt your feelings. Trust me on this.
2007-04-06 09:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to be letting yourself have boy problems, you should just enjoy your life right now. You'll have enough man problems when you get older.
2007-04-06 08:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I don't like this kind of charm. Find a nice guy whose really charming.
2007-04-06 08:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he is really interested in you. play games back and see if he reacts to them and if he does that might mean he's for real. if he is then tell him he needs to quit flirting in order for you two to be together
2007-04-06 08:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by blaze4lyfe267 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋